@jessie73enoch Said
i really dont know the last time i posted and if these dates on here are right or not, i am here at the house in my room watching tv and thinking about what i was told about shanta at work still running her mouth about me when i am off.
i just dont know when it was, so i really cant say anything about her until i know this. i dont know if she was there or what happened when it all went down but i know that rhonda wouldnt have let that go by if she was just going on and on about me being a faggot and stuff. i dont know why she just wont drop it. i even said have a nice evening when she was getting off work and everything and she hasnt ever said anything to me again about it. i just dont know what to think.
i really dont want to deal with it because its some redneck b**** drama from a woman that cant have a man unless he is in a wheelchair so he cant get away from her.i say that in bitterness because of the way i have been treated by her,but i dont mean too. shallow minded people are all over and in this day and time noone should have to indure something like this in the work place. i dont want to deal with it but if i have to it will be done legaly. the next time i have to incounter this problem i am going to have to file a report with the police because i dont have to take this anywhere in the usa because that is hateful and discrimatory. i can get along with anyone but i dont have to put up with someone saying things at my job about me or to me about me being gay. that is not anyones bisness and i dont live it or show it to anyone in the store. i know that if i was to act in a way that was out of line like that people wouldnt respond well and wouldnt come in there to shop. there are children that come in there and i would never act in a way that was disrespectful to them seeing hearing or knowing anything about anything like that from me. so someone that works there and is talking about me openly about things of my sexual prefferance in front of anyone that i might have to encounter coming through that store is way out of line,not to mention her calling me a faggot to my face.
i do want this to be out of my head and not a worry to me but i know that when someone is on their soapbox about something like that, it could lead to someone being rude or trying to start something with me or loure me out to get ahold of me and take me out to really hurt me. hate crimes arent anything to mess with because it always goes too far.
She's totally out of line. Don't you have an HR dept or a superior you can take this to, or, are you still under cover with them? Your sexual identity is of no concern of anyone but you and your S/O. She's skirting a "hate crime". How does she know you are Gay? Are you openly Gay? Being openly Gay can turn some people off and persuade them to lash out.
My advice is to document everything and get witnesses. Ask her to stop doing what she's doing to bash you. Maybe you can work it out with her. There just has to be some underlying issue with her. You don't need to take any of this.
J.R.