rape/molestation

but some how both r same right!

Yea they are both unwanted and forced.

if a girl is molestated does it leave some psycological effects in her later life

if a person has suffered such so to whom she should be talking to.coz parents most likely dont understand their kids

Yeah parents do understand thier kids, but there are tons of charities and help sites on the net where you can get professional advice.

In my personal opinion its best not to dwell on it. Most of us have something horrible happen to us where he had no control on the situation. And it does change us in a way, it will affect us. But i feel that to constantly dwell on it, to remain a victim actually stops you leading a normal life.

So if you have been molested, tell your parents, tell someone, seek some help, then put it behind you and get on with as normal a life as you can. The longer you dwell on it the longer you are a victim, and we can all choose to not be a victim.

thanx thats a big help

definately report this to the parents! They most indeed should understand!