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puala__koala On August 21, 2009




Swarthmore, Pennsylvania
#1New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:45:15
okay, so when school started i met this girl, who seemed pretty cool. we became friends and all and then during homecoming (a couple weeks ago) she told me she liked me and we hooked up and yeah... i hooked up with this guy that night BEFORE i hooked up wiht her, but she told me it didnt matter (besides she has a bf) (what happened with the guy is i got to know him and then... i just couldnt go out with him..)
okay, so the following monday, i see her and to everything she just replies to everything i say like she doesnt want to talk to me. then, im out for three days ( i got a cold, apparently so did she, along with the guy i hooked up with) and when i come back she has completely new friends and yeah..
now everytime i see her shes with her new friends and they dont want me to talk to her, so i ask her if shes doing something on this day or that day or blah blah blah and she always tells me she wishes she could go but she cant.
And now, i have a party tomorrow that is hosted by this support group thats basically like "hook-up-with-everyone-group" and i wanna go but she doesnt want me to. i asked to come first and she said she wished she could, so what i wanna do is i wanna just go there and have fun.
but now that i think about it i feel bad, i mean i dont want to cheat on her, so i have to break up wiht her before the party. the problem is im not going to school tomorrow because im going with my parents to the phillies parade. and i cant call her cause i dotn have her number.
so what do i do? i doubt its gonna work i mean i wouldnt even call what we have a relationship. do i cheat on her, do somehow magically find a way to break up with her, or do i just not go?
Lili On July 12, 2019
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Sunshine Land,
#2New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:48:36
I wouldn't call it cheating on her, it sounds like you two don't even have a relationship right now. It sounds likme you two hooked up, and it got awkward after that. I wouldn't call that being in a relationship. And if she gets pissed, tell her not to be a cold two faced b**** around her new friends, and maybe she can keep her g/f's longer.
lilbear On January 18, 2010
Aequitas / Veritas!


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, Canada
#3New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:50:47
I'm confused!! How can you break up with someone [by reading your post] that you aren't even going out with in the proper term of what a relationship should be???
puala__koala On August 21, 2009




Swarthmore, Pennsylvania
#4New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:51:41
idk she asked me out... but yeah i think youre right... everyones just telling me "just go to the party" but its like... i feel bad... whatever.
Lili On July 12, 2019
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Sunshine Land,
#5New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:52:32
She should feel bad for how much of a coward she's being. You moving on from that BS is a natural reaction.
Wheezy_Knight On February 24, 2012

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Ankh-Morpork, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:54:19
Question: okay.. so how do i break up wiht her?

Answer: Take the advice of people online, tell her you have done so...and she'll break up with you for taking our advice.

Problem solved. 8)
puala__koala On August 21, 2009




Swarthmore, Pennsylvania
#7New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:55:43
okay. yeah.
lilbear On January 18, 2010
Aequitas / Veritas!


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#8New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:55:50
@Wheezy_Knight Said

Question: okay.. so how do i break up wiht her?

Answer: Take the advice of people online, tell her you have done so...and she'll break up with you for taking our advice.

Problem solved. 8)



Cocky aren't ya???
puala__koala On August 21, 2009




Swarthmore, Pennsylvania
#9New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 22:58:48
@Wheezy_Knight Said

Question: okay.. so how do i break up wiht her?

Answer: Take the advice of people online, tell her you have done so...and she'll break up with you for taking our advice.

Problem solved. 8)


exellent solution.
puala__koala On August 21, 2009




Swarthmore, Pennsylvania
#10New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 23:00:30
@Lili Said

She should feel bad for how much of a coward she's being. You moving on from that BS is a natural reaction.


you know what? she should.
btw i like your obama thingy.
Wheezy_Knight On February 24, 2012

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Ankh-Morpork, United Kingdom
#11New Post! Oct 30, 2008 @ 23:02:27
@lilbear Said

Cocky aren't ya???


Oh c'mon..the applied "wisdom" of the internet can be summed up in one word and a smiley.."Whatever "




sunandsurf13 On June 29, 2009

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Sydney, Australia
#12New Post! Oct 31, 2008 @ 06:35:03
@puala__koala Said

okay, so when school started i met this girl, who seemed pretty cool. we became friends and all and then during homecoming (a couple weeks ago) she told me she liked me and we hooked up and yeah... i hooked up with this guy that night BEFORE i hooked up wiht her, but she told me it didnt matter (besides she has a bf) (what happened with the guy is i got to know him and then... i just couldnt go out with him..)
okay, so the following monday, i see her and to everything she just replies to everything i say like she doesnt want to talk to me. then, im out for three days ( i got a cold, apparently so did she, along with the guy i hooked up with) and when i come back she has completely new friends and yeah..
now everytime i see her shes with her new friends and they dont want me to talk to her, so i ask her if shes doing something on this day or that day or blah blah blah and she always tells me she wishes she could go but she cant.
And now, i have a party tomorrow that is hosted by this support group thats basically like "hook-up-with-everyone-group" and i wanna go but she doesnt want me to. i asked to come first and she said she wished she could, so what i wanna do is i wanna just go there and have fun.
but now that i think about it i feel bad, i mean i dont want to cheat on her, so i have to break up wiht her before the party. the problem is im not going to school tomorrow because im going with my parents to the phillies parade. and i cant call her cause i dotn have her number.
so what do i do? i doubt its gonna work i mean i wouldnt even call what we have a relationship. do i cheat on her, do somehow magically find a way to break up with her, or do i just not go?



I wouldn't call it a relationship either. Did you both promise each other you would be exclusive? If so, the way she has acted of late tells me if anything, you have been dumped already.
I would just go, I don't think you need to explain anything. Meet someone else, have fun, enjoy.
I'm uncertain whether there is actually a friendship here between you two, in addition to whatever happened. It doesn't sound like it would have worked out, and it doesn't sound like you are too worried about it either.
Just go, have fun.
darkangel28 On February 08, 2019
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damn it started snowing again,
#13New Post! Nov 09, 2008 @ 23:57:35
its obvious she dont even wanna talk to u it sounds like. she probably only told u she liked u so u would hook up with her like she said she has a bf already so she is going around cheating on her bf i wouldnt wanna go out with or even be friends with someone like that she sounds like a b****.
she will probably do the same thing to her new friends that she did to u.
roxygemini On April 16, 2009

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#14New Post! Nov 10, 2008 @ 00:07:56
Tell her that she is cool, just not that cool.
Komentenmelodie On May 25, 2018




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#15New Post! Apr 04, 2018 @ 18:18:16
This is true in any relationship situation like this! If you are going to break up with someone it has to be established first that you are going out with each other in the first place (exclusively). Otherwise its just a one night stand or the like!
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