okay, so when school started i met this girl, who seemed pretty cool. we became friends and all and then during homecoming (a couple weeks ago) she told me she liked me and we hooked up and yeah... i hooked up with this guy that night BEFORE i hooked up wiht her, but she told me it didnt matter (besides she has a bf) (what happened with the guy is i got to know him and then... i just couldnt go out with him..)
okay, so the following monday, i see her and to everything she just replies to everything i say like she doesnt want to talk to me. then, im out for three days ( i got a cold, apparently so did she, along with the guy i hooked up with) and when i come back she has completely new friends and yeah..
now everytime i see her shes with her new friends and they dont want me to talk to her, so i ask her if shes doing something on this day or that day or blah blah blah and she always tells me she wishes she could go but she cant.
And now, i have a party tomorrow that is hosted by this support group thats basically like "hook-up-with-everyone-group" and i wanna go but she doesnt want me to. i asked to come first and she said she wished she could, so what i wanna do is i wanna just go there and have fun.
but now that i think about it i feel bad, i mean i dont want to cheat on her, so i have to break up wiht her before the party. the problem is im not going to school tomorrow because im going with my parents to the phillies parade. and i cant call her cause i dotn have her number.
so what do i do? i doubt its gonna work i mean i wouldnt even call what we have a relationship. do i cheat on her, do somehow magically find a way to break up with her, or do i just not go?
I wouldn't call it a relationship either. Did you both promise each other you would be exclusive? If so, the way she has acted of late tells me if anything, you have been dumped already.
I would just go, I don't think you need to explain anything. Meet someone else, have fun, enjoy.
I'm uncertain whether there is actually a friendship here between you two, in addition to whatever happened. It doesn't sound like it would have worked out, and it doesn't sound like you are too worried about it either.
Just go, have fun.