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dogemily On July 04, 2012




New York, New York
#1New Post! Jul 03, 2012 @ 21:01:06
ok here it is. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst 45 dollars for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box and games and i pod i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a cribs and rattles

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public. just to scare her and For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair now she is not going to let me take drivers ed in school. she told me that im to imature to drive that babies dont get to do grown up things. she saying all these mean things to me. I have a right to drive? cant they make her a better mom or something. this suxs so bad wut she did to me.
white_swan53 On March 19, 2020




n/a, New Mexico
#2New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:05:47
IMO, your mom should make you and your brother pay her back the 45 dollars it cost her , because her teen aged kids don't seem to have have any problem embarrassing her and annoying strangers in public by fighting like toddlers .

Since she never laid a hand on either of you or verbally abused you , what would you tell CPS ?
My mommy hurt my feelings by calling me an infant when me and my little brother had a food fight in MacDonald's ?
wednesday76 On February 25, 2013




Dodging the Daggers, United Ki
#3New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:10:46
Is this a joke?
At 15 i would have thought you where old enough to know better, and to threaten your mother with CPS? What a horrid thing to say..
Tbh you mum got it just right!! And you should be completely ashamed of yourself at stating that your mum "abuses and verbally attacks you"
waldo On August 02, 2016
I don't care





lancaster, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:16:59
Grow up you spoilt brat.
hoppy On August 27, 2013




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#5New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:17:26
@wednesday76 Said

Is this a joke?
At 15 i would have thought you where old enough to know better, and to threaten your mother with CPS? What a horrid thing to say..
Tbh you mum got it just right!! And you should be completely ashamed of yourself at stating that your mum "abuses and verbally attacks you"



These days schools have a required course in "stupid".
wednesday76 On February 25, 2013




Dodging the Daggers, United Ki
#6New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:19:14
@hoppy Said

These days schools have a required course in "stupid".


Guess what...i am laughing at myself for using the word "horrid" and i did it in the typical posh totty English voice outloud.
Demented On May 09, 2020




, Australia
#7New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:24:27
@dogemily Said

ok here it is. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst 45 dollars for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box and games and i pod i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a cribs and rattles

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public. just to scare her and For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair now she is not going to let me take drivers ed in school. she told me that im to imature to drive that babies dont get to do grown up things. she saying all these mean things to me. I have a right to drive? cant they make her a better mom or something. this suxs so bad wut she did to me.



You say your 15,yet your Profile shows 17?,so how old are you really??,and at 17 if you did s*** like that you deserve to have your nut's kicked up into your head,because there's F*ck all else between your ears .
Dark_Tink On December 30, 2018
<3 Boobie <3





, Canada
#8New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:42:27
@dogemily Said

ok here it is. first my mom never hits me. me and my bother got into a fight at mcdonalds we threw ketchup on each other.im older im 15 he is 13. i got some ketchup on some woman clothes and my mom had to reinburst 45 dollars for the damage. my mom freak out on me told me i was a immature baby and my brother to in front of people in mcdonlads. Leaving mcdonalds she told us that she should get us some pacifers and some pampers and a playpen. people were looking at me. like she was right. she took away my x box and games and i pod i cant go out on weekends now. on the car ride home she is yelling at us telling us when she goes to wallmart she should buy us a cribs and rattles

Can i turn her into CPS for abuse saying those things to me? isnt it slander or something saying lies about someone. saying i need pampers and making me look bad in public. just to scare her and For the record he started it my brother not me. its not fair now she is not going to let me take drivers ed in school. she told me that im to imature to drive that babies dont get to do grown up things. she saying all these mean things to me. I have a right to drive? cant they make her a better mom or something. this suxs so bad wut she did to me.



No you cannot turn her into CPS for what she said. You two were acting like babies by horsing around with ketchup.


Though, I have a feeling this is NOT a real story, since how could that woman prove that shirt she had on was $45...does she carry all her clothes receipts with her?? Plus, you can get ketchup out of a shirt, it's not as though it was blood.
LuckyCharms On February 13, 2020
Magically Delicious





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#9New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:43:55
This is not abuse.

This is a mother losing her temper with her children that are old enough to know how to behave in public. $50 doesn't come easy. It has to be earned. You embarrassed and humiliated your mother (your actions reflected badly on her as a parent) and cost her money to boot.

You should apologize to your mother and try to earn her trust again.

If you were my children, it would be a long long time before I took you to McDonalds or any restaurant ever again.

Food fights are not fun, are not cool and costing your parents a chunk of change because of carelessness is not something to cry victim over.

You should be ashamed of your behavior and I hope you do feel that way and honestly apologize to your mother.

She may have gone on and on a bit but public humiliation can do that to a person. Especially if she was having a bad day to begin with.
someone_else On August 30, 2012
Not a dude.


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American Alps, Washington
#10New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:45:36
@Dark_Tink Said


Though, I have a feeling this is NOT a real story, since how could that woman prove that shirt she had on was $45...does she carry all her clothes receipts with her?? Plus, you can get ketchup out of a shirt, it's not as though it was blood.



Strangely, that was the thing that stuck out the most to me.
Demented On May 09, 2020




, Australia
#11New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:46:52
@Dark_Tink Said

No you cannot turn her into CPS for what she said. You two were acting like babies by horsing around with ketchup.


Though, I have a feeling this is NOT a real story, since how could that woman prove that shirt she had on was $45...does she carry all her clothes receipts with her?? Plus, you can get ketchup out of a shirt, it's not as though it was blood.



Ummmmmmmm,how about cleaning expenses?
LuckyCharms On February 13, 2020
Magically Delicious





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#12New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:47:53
@someone_else Said

Strangely, that was the thing that stuck out the most to me.


Eh, I can see $45 for clothes. I don't believe the OP specified if it was a shirt. However even a shirt is not out of line at $45 depending on it. If it were a jacket and a shirt, the $45 is cheap.
someone_else On August 30, 2012
Not a dude.


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American Alps, Washington
#13New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:54:00
@LuckyCharms Said

Eh, I can see $45 for clothes. I don't believe the OP specified if it was a shirt. However even a shirt is not out of line at $45 depending on it. If it were a jacket and a shirt, the $45 is cheap.



This is true, but it's ketchup. The way the story is told in the OP, it sounds like Mom gave the woman $45 on the spot. Why? Did she know the ketchup wasn't going to come out? Is there anything you can take to a dry cleaner that costs $45 to clean?

I dunno, call me suspicious but...yeah, that's it. Call me suspicious about the whole thing.
Dark_Tink On December 30, 2018
<3 Boobie <3





, Canada
#14New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:54:42
@Demented Said

Ummmmmmmm,how about cleaning expenses?



But the OP said his mom had to pay for it there at the restaurant. I would want proof of how much it cost before I pay.
Dark_Tink On December 30, 2018
<3 Boobie <3





, Canada
#15New Post! Jul 04, 2012 @ 14:56:20
@LuckyCharms Said

Eh, I can see $45 for clothes. I don't believe the OP specified if it was a shirt. However even a shirt is not out of line at $45 depending on it. If it were a jacket and a shirt, the $45 is cheap.



True, the clothing wasn't specified. But I'm still calling 'Bulls***' on the OP.
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