my best mate wants me to meet him for more sex

me and my best mate (whos a guy) both really like it each other but we were both in a realionship with other ppl so we just became really gud mates but now were both single he wants me to meet up with him this afternoon for sex.

i was all up for it but now thats the time is coming near im really scared i dnt no what do to as i dnt want to ruin our freindship.

what should i do??

has this happened to you b4?

friends with benefits

hmmm, can be a good thing and a bad thing

sex usually means complications

both un-attached, both attracted to each other, go for it!

if its good sex, you will remain friends, if its dissapointing there may be a problem

ino i dont want want to ruin our frinedship but i do like him and i dont want to change my mind at the last min.

ino sex makes everything weird but it fun at da time

2 options

you go threw with it, end up building something up strong..

or, it backfires and the friendship crumbles or becomes awkard..

i've had experiences in both situations.

thats what im scared of as were both not that long out of realionships so were used to our partners and what iv when were together were s*** as were not used to each other

awww i want the first 1 but im scared of the second 1 happening as it the last thing i want

Always hope for the first

but, if the second comes about you'll just have to try to work things out the best you can. just talk things out.. either way i think you'll be fine, thats how i met my first love years ago.. it seemed like their was always a problem, and we were super close, but at the time we were both dating other people. its not as f***ed up as it soudns, but we finally got that one chance, just like your beginning to experience.. i took it and were together for three in a half years later.. and it was the best f***ing thing ever.. don't miss out on the chance to do sometihng you want to do.

you really have nothing to lose, if the relationship crumbles or becomes awkward it really wasnt that good in the first place

but good luck

sounds like you are really anxious about the situation, that can indicate that the scenario if played out today has a good chance of going wrong.

these kind of things are best when they are spontaneous, not planned like an appointment.

why not wait, go out for a date and see how it goes, then the nerves will not be there and more possibility of you both enjoying the experience.

tooshay!

It would have done if one of the girls wasn't my girlfreind and the jelous type

yea, f***ed up she was/is