living with a man who doesnt love me

@catt35 Said

Granted we only dated for a month before I moved in with him, but I've been living with him for almost 2 months now and still.....no love! I wonder why I'm even here most of the time. He's not a bad guy, per se...we don't have much in common though, and I feel lonely and long for love nearly 247 so I'm thinking if I feel this miserable I shouldnt be here.

@spellchick Said

So why did you move in with him in the first place?

@rubylights Said

don't make yourself suffer if you don't have to. you're not bound to this person and if he's not making you happy, then i don't see why you should stay.

it might get better, that's always a possibility, but if you were willing to move in with him regardless of whether or not he loved you, it's possible that he doesn't feel he needs to show you any love because you already gave him everything in return for nothing.

you're worth more than being with someone who doesn't love you. we all are...

@catt35 Said

OF course, not having a job, any money at all of my own and no where else to go isn't helping matters any...i feel like i have to stay , well technically i do for now

@catt35 Said

I thought I was in love with him is why i moved in with him. I knew this guy wasn't in love with me yet, but I thought for sure it wouldve happened by now. He's been super hurt in the past and is keeping himself closed off because he trusts absolutely no one. I know, I know, we've all been hurt...get over it already and move on...but guys seem to have a much harder time doing that.