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theunknowncommodity On February 05, 2012




Vancouver, Canada
#1New Post! Sep 23, 2009 @ 20:47:01
hey all, it's the beginning of the semester at my college, about 2 weeks in and i just met this girl in one of my psych classes, both of us arent very talkative, but we talk to each other, it's been 2 classes now since i met her, wont see her until monday morning now... how long before i've waited too long? is it okay if ppl who arent as talkative to take longer before they ask each other out?

i suck at these things, what should i do?
sugarflyguy On March 15, 2010
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#2New Post! Sep 23, 2009 @ 21:00:09
Just try chat more, she may just be shy
lindasue1718 On January 13, 2010




San Antonio, Texas
#3New Post! Sep 24, 2009 @ 00:32:18
You have to do what you feel. No one here online can talk to her and pick up on the vibes shes giving out. If it feels comfortable ask her out. If not then wait a bit.
LittlePinky82 On January 29, 2015




Chattanooga, Tennessee
#4New Post! Sep 27, 2009 @ 16:43:54
Well you don't know anything about her so she may have a boyfriend or something like that. Maybe try to be friends first and see where that goes.
townie_guy On May 07, 2013

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, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Sep 29, 2009 @ 08:51:01
If all u do is chat to her, ur just gonna end up being in the "lets just be friends" zone. U need to make her want you, show her that you can be there for her in a way she needs. Just chatting is gud but you need to make her attracted to you.
Electric_Banana On February 05, 2024




, New Zealand
#6New Post! Sep 29, 2009 @ 09:10:07
Question her about her. Brothers? Sisters? What she's studying to become? Hobbies? and most importantly if she's dating anyone.

Question her up and she's bound to reveal some common ground that you can use as a springboard for deeper conversation. =)
Charlemagne On December 10, 2012




Houston,
#7New Post! Sep 29, 2009 @ 11:30:05
Don't ask if she's dating anyone, if she does mention she's dating someone, tell her that's cool and now that you've come along she gets to go on a REAL date.


Convince yourself and her that you are the one she wants because you're smarter, funnier, more interesting and better looking.
townie_guy On May 07, 2013

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, United Kingdom
#8New Post! Sep 29, 2009 @ 12:15:05
Also try and nake yourself superior to her. Like if she buys some new shoes or somet say "wow ur the second person ive seen in those shoes today" that way she will feel the need to prove herself to you even more.
jonblaze On May 11, 2011




Tulsa, United States (general)
#9New Post! Sep 29, 2009 @ 12:38:24
just strike up a conversation and show her your interested in her. maybe you guys can find some common ground and see how it goes from there. You should be able to feel her vibe though and know if she is interested in a relationship whether it be friends or something else.
townie_guy On May 07, 2013

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, United Kingdom
#10New Post! Sep 29, 2009 @ 13:01:11
Stuff that, u get her attracted to u. It dosnt matter if she wants a rship or not cuz u will create feelings even if they aint there. Only question is what do u want, quick seduction or relationship??
TWSS On November 10, 2009




Houston, Texas
#11New Post! Oct 01, 2009 @ 00:53:26
Just keep it casual, man. Invite her over to your dorm common area to do psych homework together. If she digs you, she WILL say yes. Then when you're doing homework mention a party or something you are excited about going to and see if she wants to go.

And if she says yes, make sure your friends know you are bringing her over bc you like her and to stay away!

Good luck!
TheGhostwriter On October 06, 2009

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Tennessee with a capital "T",
#12New Post! Oct 01, 2009 @ 01:24:39
Does your college have a cafeteria? If so, ask her to go there with you for lunch. It's casual, and it doesn't put any pressure on her. If the two of you hit it off, then next time you can take her out to a real restaurant. Things should take off naturally from there.

Don't try to be a "pimp" or a tough guy or any of that other s***. Unless she's a total tramp, she'll be repulsed by you within the first ten minutes. This isn't the wild; she probably won't be impressed by how colorful your tailfeathers are.

Most importantly, don't lie and don't be something you aren't.

And don't, don't, don't "make yourself feel superior" to her. No healthy relationship has ever been built by exploiting someone else's insecurity.
darkangel28 On February 08, 2019
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damn it started snowing again,
#13New Post! Oct 03, 2009 @ 02:16:55
next time u see her ask her out for coffee or something that way u guys can talk and get to know eachother better or u can ask for her number u can text eachother til she is comfortable enough to call and talk to u on the phone.
JR_Sanford On August 02, 2017




Portland (St. Johns), Oregon
#14New Post! Oct 03, 2009 @ 03:26:14
Make sure the next time you do see her, make a comment on how great her (fill in the blank, like hair, dress, shoes) looks. Keep it clean. Showing her that you have an interest in her will go miles if she has any interest in you.

J.R.
ultra On February 13, 2010




bermondsey, United Kingdom
#15New Post! Oct 08, 2009 @ 22:03:11
good luck mate just be yourself thats all i can say, just hope she likes you for who u are and nothing else
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