is this a 'good' relationship...

my friends going out with an absolute tosser in my opionion. hes horrible to me b****s about me 24/7 makes my life miserable...

anyway hes not exactly fantastic to her either. they play fight, but he takes it out of hand and makes her bleed and cry...

anyway today her friend showed her a txt that was sent from her boyfriend to her friend...it said sumthing like "i know shes well annoying, and a f***ign brat...does my head in."

he wrote that about his own girlfriend!!!! HOW BAD IS THAT!??

i had to stay away from him today for fear of hitting him...

you seem to have alot of friends who's boyfriends dont like you

its the same one lol

Sounds abusive to me...

Break the cycle...refuse to be abused...

well sometimes we all get fed up with our partners and say something like 'god he/she is doing my head in!' so im not to worried about that.
the play fighting is abit of a worry though.
hmmm hes sounds like a complete d***head to me. you need to have a serious chat with her and make sure she knows you're there for her no matter what but dont have a go at her

i think you juat have to take a step back and let your friend realise what he is like for herself. if you keep telling her he is a t*** and that she is better off without her, she is going to be more determined to prove you wrong.

All you can do is be there for her when she needs you and try to stay away from him. Just explain to your friend that you don't like him but respect that she does and you will still be her friend but you will not tolerate the way he is.

yeah i agree with midnight fantasy, its best to back away from the situation. A good freind will give thier honest opinion and support you no matter what happens. Just be there when it all goes tits up, dont be a part of the inevitable break up.

You learn from your mistakes and if you let your friend learn on her own, that he's no good for her then she won't make the same mistake again & as long as your their for her when it all breaks down then she'll remember you having been there tere for you & having been a good friend.
Which is good for you!

im trying to back away from the situation but he brings me into the conversation and slags me off so much i cant keep out of it!!!

it drives me nuts

yea thats gay. sounds like hes too immature for a relationship to me. lol
<3juggalette i love heath

then dont be there when he is there

yeah you can say "dont drag me into it" end of story

how easy it for you to sayy that when all my friends are a group and hes part of that group

been there done that got the t-shirt lol he just says im the cause of it all

im just keeping away from him now. he stares at me proper loads thou