@fallenangel Said I am really confused. Everybody keeps telling me to end the relationship I have with my boyfriend because he is abusing me, but I don't think he is.
Every so often he will start play fighting with me...and yes he does get a bit rough but he's a guy so he is bound to be rough. He has bruised me before but it was an accident. Since I have gotten pregnant though he has stopped punching and being rough.
He does call me stupid and other names but that's just because he is upset about me being pregnant and he needs to lett. it out
I did listen to everyone before and I tried to leave and when it came down to it I couldn't because I do love him. He said he was sorry and it would kill him if I ever left so he does love me.
Pepople say it's abuse but they can't see why he does the things he does...he doesn't do it on purpose. But I really am confused and can't see straight.
Angel, I said it before, and I'll say it again.
You already know the answer to this question.
You are a bright and lovely girl that happens to be pregnant.
On the general chat thread you claimed he slapped you just the other day.
ANY man that lays his hands on a woman is not a real man.
In your current situation, you don't NEED a man, but if you have to have one, you need to get a REAL one.
Make this dude understand what he's done IS abusive, and if he does it again, LEAVE HIM for the sake of you and your child.
You are full of the typical excuses a girl who thinks they are in love will say.
The behavior you are describing has very little to do with love, and alot to do with low self esteem, wich everyone has at one point or another in their life.