he is so 'out of my league'

okay quick description: multiracial, like no other guy in the world. dark hair, tan skin, greatest body ever. and me: quiet, crazy hair, pale as a ghost, and no flirting ability whatsover. its too hard for me to like someone ordinary like myself. gah. just rant whatever or tell me about your experiences with this.


he is so amazing.

Dont beat yourself up. Looks are only skin deep and dont last forever. It is how you feel inside that counts. Be prode of who you are nobody is to good for you. If you tell yourself something 3 times then you will feel that way, so tell yourself how wonderful you are and when you feel it, he will see it.

There are no "leagues". If you want him ask for it.

Flirting isn't hard. it's kind of like in grade school...lol You know how in school, if you were even slightly nicer to one person than other, everyone was like, "oh! You like him don't you??" It's really that simple. Just be nicer to him than usual, smile a lot, try to start a conversation. It'll be obvious. People automatically tend to like people more who like them, so right off the bat, you'll be on the right foot.

oh man.
thats exactly how i feel.
don't think so lowly of yourself. if you like him, go for it. if you take yourself out of the game, you'll never win. give it a try

this thread.... is like the story of my life. except with the girl guy roles flipped around. kinda wish i was cooler. high five for ordinary!

confidence is the key young one.

for whomsoever holds the key to cofidence shall truly inherit the earth.

dunno what that was about.

Hey, dude, take it easy, man. Stop beating yourself up. Like I've said before, confidence is key. Nobody's is going to have confidence in you if you don't have confidence in yourself, and nobody wants to date someone they don't have confidence in.

If that's really your picture up there, I'd say you have nothing to worry about. You're pretty hot.

Don't call yourself 'ordinary' there is something extraordinary in each of us and if he can't see that in you then maybe he doesn't deserve you! Show confidence in yourself, you can do so much more than you give yourself credit for here.

Hey, dude, take it easy, man. Stop beating yourself up. Like I've said before, confidence is key. Nobody's is going to have confidence in you if you don't have confidence in yourself, and nobody wants to date someone they don't have confidence in. If that's really your picture up there, I'd say you have nothing to worry about. You're pretty hot. Don't call yourself 'ordinary' there is something extraordinary in each of us and if he can't see that in you then maybe he doesn't deserve you! Show confidence in yourself, you can do so much more than you give yourself credit for here.