dumped!!

i've gotten dumped by my boyfriend because i wasn't christian like he is, but i don't get why being christian or not has to deal with anything. im still hurt but i don't know what else to say to him we're friends and all but he tells me if i wanted to be with him i had to be christian and i really don't want to be what should i do? i don't want to hurt him, because he still loves me but i just don't me being christian would work for me.

Nobody should force you to be something you're not or believe in something you don't... you're way better off without him.

Find someone who loves you for you and won't try to change you.

If he won't accept who you are, there is no future.

true i did say that to him but he really don't get the idea of it which makes me feel okward because he don't understand why i dont' want to be christian.

Just going to copy what they said - if someone wants to change the person you are then they can't really love you in the first place.

this is a stringe but common problem between simle minded religous people yes he probably is a good guy but it sounds like you 2 should just stay freinds youll find somone who can commit their self to you compleatly its just a w8ing game stick with science and refuse blid faith you seem quite intelligant dont take on a faith for anyone else but yourself it might seem hard to grasp but if hes choosing a so called god over you he aint worth it id go to hell for my misses he should feel thew same for you if he loved you just ride it out and things will be ok in the end

that somes it up right there.

He understands fully, he just doesn't want to deal with the fact you don't believe.

I'd have dumped his a** by now for not taking me for who I was.

amen to that

I am sorry, I bet that really hurts. He should not ask you to become a Christian just so y'all can be together, that is wrong, but it is also alot of times important for Christians to have another Christian as the love in their life, other wise down the road, you will disagree on major issues that could affect your relationship. If you would sincerely want to become a Christian, and then get back together with him, that would be a wonderful thing. But don't get into Christianity just to be with him, that could in the long run cause more pain. And I am truly sorry for both of you

You dont need religion to love someone... its crap him dumping you for that... hes small minded and isnt a true christian if he is doing that...

i know exactly how you feel.
you have the right not to be christian , nobody can force you to do that.
it's just : why haven't you thought about that before you got involve with that guy??
i don't know what to say. you both should figure out a solution that could fit you both.

No, I do believe he is probably a true Christian, the Bible tells Christians not to marry or be unequally yoked with non-believers.

It also says judge not lest ye be judged. There is nothing inheritently wrong with being a non-Christian...but it does help to have the same beliefs. However, If his only reason for leaving you was religion, he's being stupid because there is more to being suited to each other than just that.

maybe he is gay and afraid of your womanhood? you are better off without him love