Y is it so hard to make a gay relationship work?

Okay, so I am 21 years old, and I do infact consider myself to be a very down to Earth and educated indavidual.
I dont think I am a bad looking guy, but for some reason it is almost impossible to make a relationship work, and the few that did last were abusive, all around unhealthy relationships.
I have advantage of knowing several gay people, who in fact seem to agree with me, and thoughts?

Hm?
I really find it's a matter of just fighting on. I know the feeling of getting one
crap one after another?trust me. It's very hard to meet people of the same
sexuality in public, as so many hide it. I would honestly suggest sites such as
Mogenic ( URL text to find others. Talk to
them over the net, talk to them on the phone and see if you wanna go ahead
with it. Just keep swimming

thats sound advice. i think that sometimes its harder to find someone you actually get along with.

It doesnt matter if its gay or striaght... we all have problems finding that special someone... Just hang in there someone will turn up.....

thats what i was trying to say, but you did it better than me. i know what i meant. but yeah you should just hang in there, it will happen. and in my experience it tends to happen when you are not looking for it.

i did and look where it got me

could be the fact it aint natural..so theres a clash in the personalities... i.e 2 men this dooooont work!

how do you mean it doesnt work? i know loads of gay couples that are happier than i have been in some of my realtionships. if anything they get on better and understand each other better! imo

dont agree with you there.... my gay friends have been together for 6 years now...if any thing there more long term relationships than us striaght people!!!

agreed!

i know a a few gay ppl and all the do is fight in there relationships and never happy.... and one min they engaged next they aint... gay guys annoy me tryin to be women camp as f*** even woman dont talk all poncy and grrrrrr its just sooooo fake lol

dont hold back!