@Spinkiegirl Said
Well.....what I guess I was trying to say is.......what would you say if a person was telling you a story about a loved one that was killed in the 9/11 terrorist attacks......if it were me, and someone told me that they lost a loved on 9//11......and knowing that I had NOTHING to do with their lost.....I would simply say "oh i'am deeply sorry for your loss and pain." I know maybe more than 1500 blacks......and i've interacted with at least that many.....i'am half black myself.....so I can say with great understanding and knowledge........89% of blacks in America, could careless about whites telling them they are 'sorry' for slavery.......they care about being understood and more IMPORTANTLY.....EQUALITY!!!!! I ask you.....even if a white person did say they were sorry for slavery....what would it hurt?
The problem is is that minorities want equality but they set themselves aside purposefully in order to maintain their culture and heritage. They cannot expect the majority to embrace their culture nor do they want them to. What we have here is a silent civil war, unfortunately one side is using weapons of the past and the other side keeps trying to ignore it exists in the hopes that it will go away. I honestly don't think slavery is an issue as much as it is an excuse to keep things separated. But why? We are all different and we are all the same. I have friends that listen to country,rap and many other genres of music whereas I listen to metal and industrial, etc. that does not mean we are not still friends, we just learn to accept the differences and focus on the similarities. Why can we not do that as a nation and as a world? Because we are all to scared that we may lose something of our own nature, we may be altered in some way. The fact is with every new person we meet, every in depth conversation we have we are altered in some way.
I don't think separate groups are wrong, as long as everyone can have them. You can not have preferential treatment and equality at the same time..it just cannot work.
To every race, creed, faction, religion, etc.....Make up your mind what you REALLY want and then take action. I would suggest starting by shaking the hand of your neighbours.