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unicorn On March 18, 2010

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The Oaks, Australia
#1New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:24:21
by someone who you had been in a long term relationship with and you had kids together. Would you take this seriously?
CaLyPsO On September 15, 2019
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kent, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:28:37
no as a lot of people say this in the heat of the moment.....unless there have been threats made then just ignore it.
debbier1999 On October 04, 2009




Perryville, Missouri
#3New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:30:49
OMG!! That is a very immature thing to say! I would be having a very serious talk with this person when things cool down.
smilelove On September 01, 2013
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Somewhere, Ohio
#4New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:31:40
I would think that that person has some issues and really should think before they speak, but nah not to be taken seriously. They're just angry.
spikeymarc On December 12, 2009




Stirling, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:32:22
Hmmm, I would just assume that they didn't like me very much and ask myself why by trying to put myself in their shoes, then if it was my fault or there was anything i could do to make that person feel better i would. But if they were in the wrong and I'd done nothing, I wouldn't speak to them again until they apologized.
I can say that, because it happened to me the other day lol....Mind you the person was younger, I think younger people just like saying "I WISH YE WERE DEAD!" But i dont think they mean it...Adults do though.
TrOoPs On April 02, 2010

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#6New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:32:51
I wouldn't! unless I had a serious life insuance policy worth millions payable on my death
unicorn On March 18, 2010

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The Oaks, Australia
#7New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:37:03
What if this person knew that you believed this to be a very serious thing to say and that you believed it should never be said unless mean't.
spikeymarc On December 12, 2009




Stirling, United Kingdom
#8New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:44:34
@unicorn Said

What if this person knew that you believed this to be a very serious thing to say and that you believed it should never be said unless mean't.



Sounds to me like it was meant then, or at least they knew how to really get to you to hurt you.
Id say "F*&k them", because i would, but each to their own, i cant be doing with silly insignificant peoples attitudes anymore! Let them hate me
vicki On May 28, 2010

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manhattan,
#9New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:52:11
Probably; since most murders and violence is of the domestic nature.
Mysteria On May 19, 2014
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A Small Town, Texas
#10New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:54:27
@TrOoPs Said

I wouldn't! unless I had a serious life insuance policy worth millions payable on my death



Love this answer!

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Knowing me, I'd probably say "Kill me, then!" In the heat of an argument, there's no telling what I'd say.
cityzen On November 11, 2009




FORT WORTH, Texas
#11New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 22:55:24
@TrOoPs Said

I wouldn't! unless I had a serious life insuance policy worth millions payable on my death





Change the beneficiary ASAP!
unicorn On March 18, 2010

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The Oaks, Australia
#12New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 23:30:37
My reply was 'And I love you too!' of course in a very sarcastic way.

I was shocked but I wasn't about to let him know it hurt me.

This happened about 4 years ago and every now and then it comes back to me when he asks for a favour with the kids or otherwise, its hard not to throw it back at his face.
spikeymarc On December 12, 2009




Stirling, United Kingdom
#13New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 23:34:06
@unicorn Said

My reply was 'And I love you too!' of course in a very sarcastic way.

I was shocked but I wasn't about to let him know it hurt me.

This happened about 4 years ago and every now and then it comes back to me when he asks for a favour with the kids or otherwise, its hard not to throw it back at his face.



4 years is a long time to harbor something like that...
And your still feeling like saying it back to him after all this time?
I can't understand that at all.

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and realize the prisoner was you".
"One forgives as much as one loves".
unicorn On March 18, 2010

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The Oaks, Australia
#14New Post! Jun 28, 2009 @ 23:50:56
@spikeymarc Said

4 years is a long time to harbor something like that...
And your still feeling like saying it back to him after all this time?
I can't understand that at all.

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and realize the prisoner was you".
"One forgives as much as one loves".



I look at this way (and maybe I need another way of looking at it) he essentially wished that our children grow up without their mother.To me that's a bit hard to swallow.
Paradigm10 On July 09, 2010




Old Forge,
#15New Post! Jun 29, 2009 @ 01:13:10
@spikeymarc Said

4 years is a long time to harbor something like that...
And your still feeling like saying it back to him after all this time?
I can't understand that at all.

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and realize the prisoner was you".
"One forgives as much as one loves".


That is really beautiful, and true. One forgives as much as one loves. That is why I've learned not to take it to heart when people I love do horrid and inconsiderate things to me.

I let them know they've ticked me off and then I let it go. I might even laugh about it after a bit if it wasn't really nasty.

I've even thought that I wished someone was dead but I knew that I was wrong and I've never had the nerve to actually say it out loud. You can never really take something like that back even if you know you really don't mean it.
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