@Mysteria Said
This is a person who lost thousands of dollars trading commodities. I lost
a few hundred dollars at a casino. The reason I went to have a talk with him is because I realized I had a problem. I was considering rehab for compulsive behavior. What I did was wrong, but there are millions of people who gamble. I'm not sure that has anything to do with common sense and/or weakness. Some people are NOT compulsive gamblers.
My mother made a comment about this woman gambling because she has Bipolar Disorder. They go to the same church. I hardly think everyone who gambles has a mental disorder.
With that said, I still don't think I deserved to be kicked when I was down. He admitted to losing all that money himself!
Yeah...that sounds definitely out of place and completely uncalled for.
I was trying to think of an example in my post before and I just now thought of one. My husband was trying to change the spark plugs in our Kia. He couldn't exactly figure out where under the engine shroud the spark plugs would be. It's not obvious and we didn't have a repair manual.
So, he called the dealership and talked to one of the techs there who said "If you don't know anything about engines, you probably shouldn't be doing that.
" Really? Seriously? So, because I don't want to rip apart my entire engine looking for something that I can easily do, you're going to tell me not to even try?
Needless to say, my husband was pretty mad and spoke to the supervisor on the sales floor.
That guy was not happy with the mechanic and found out the info we needed.
Now, on a slightly different note...I once tried to fix some plumbing and actually made the problem worse.
My husband was a little irritated that I'd tried to fix it when I knew nothing about plumbing. So, he hurt my feelings when we talked about it initially...more because he was exasperated. In the end, he just very nicely said, "Please don't do anything with plumbing anymore. If you make a little mistake it could really mess things up and make it a lot harder to fix. Please."
So I don't mess with plumbing. But he didn't call me an idiot over it.