So many of you know about the girl I told you about. The one who automatically confided in me after breaking up with her boyfriend. We talk a bit more now. I think we are slowly leaving the acquaintance level and becoming friends. One of my friends however, wants me to stay away because he believes that she will “use me.” In a ignorant rant, this guy told me she won’t EVER be interested in me because I’m not rich and I don’t drive an expensive car like a Maserati (her ex drives a busted up pick up truck. Her and I each have way better cars). I feel he is being insecure, but he claims I am following the typical Lance Corporal route, which ends in getting a car for 30% apr and all this other bulls***. He was divorced while active duty, so I think that’s one problem. We had another argument over her because his opinion is still the same. I wanted to tell him the progress we made. I don’t think I would ever bring her up to him again. On top of that, this man had the nerve to tell me I’m risking our friendship over her. I told him his assumptions is what is making it worse and calling her a hoe and all this when he clearly doesn’t know her. So far, she’s pretty cool. Due to his ignorance, he may never know that. I don’t have feelings for her. I admitted that she interests me, but not in the way it would be if I were to fall for someone.
He gave me an ultimatum stating I choose either, “a chick that uses you to feel better about herself and her bf baggage, or a fellow Marine who’s been there for you even through all the drama good and bad.”