Tell me that it would be ok..

@Judas Said

Till they piss her off.
I can't see this fly off the handle behaviour just limited to her boyfriend. Or ex.

@chaski Said

Dumb question. Why would you ask that and why would you care?



I don't dream of my ex-girlfriends. Never have. I just don't dream about them... In fact, I don't have dreams about people very often... my dreams are more like floating thoughts...



Why?



Why?



It is very minor... extremely minor!!!!




You are assuming he is lying. If you asked me that question my answer would have be "No", and I would not have been lying.



No. It is not. Even if it was a "lie" he was giving you the answer that he thought you wanted.
He was thinking of YOU.

You, however, are being selfish and small minded about this.



Amazingly small minded of you.



You are wrong.

You asked a stupid question that you never should have asked and did not need to be asked.

HOWEVER, you already had the answer that you BELIEVED to be true in your head.

He had no chance.

If he said, "yes".... you would have been mad.

If he said "no"... well obviously you were mad.

NEVER ASK A QUESTION UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED TO ACCEPT THE ANSWER.

If you do ask the question:

A. Accept the answer.

B. Don't ask the question.

PS: Didn't you already break up with this guy for cheating on you? If so... quit being a child and move on.

If not... give the guy a break!!

@Verstehen Said

plz tell me if I am wrong..

@Verstehen Said

im sorry I dnt care what any of you think...

@Verstehen Said

im sorry I dnt care what any of you think... the answer was mostly about why he lied.. wasnt if he dreamt of her.. of course I know thats normal.. so all of you who think im wrong or whatever... psssht suck it..if you think im going to accept being lied to.. then um.. no... I told him I was dreaming of other random ppl.. so why should I be upset if he does...maybe my journals on this site have made me seem.. like im always unhappy...but I only use this site to vent... the only peson has ever made me sad is him.. as for the idiot who wants to say that my ex has been walking on eggshells around me.. dam straight.. he lied to my whole family and and me about his past.. ut wasnt until I left him he hooked up back with his ex until he realized she wnt let her man go and he was second place... so plz shut up if you donno the dam info..

@Verstehen Said

im sorry I dnt care what any of you think... the answer was mostly about why he lied.. wasnt if he dreamt of her.. of course I know thats normal.. so all of you who think im wrong or whatever... psssht suck it..if you think im going to accept being lied to.. then um.. no... I told him I was dreaming of other random ppl.. so why should I be upset if he does...maybe my journals on this site have made me seem.. like im always unhappy...but I only use this site to vent... the only peson has ever made me sad is him.. as for the idiot who wants to say that my ex has been walking on eggshells around me.. dam straight.. he lied to my whole family and and me about his past.. ut wasnt until I left him he hooked up back with his ex until he realized she wnt let her man go and he was second place... so plz shut up if you donno the dam info..

@Eaglebauer Said

I think some of the confusion is that there really doesn't seem to be any way for you to know he's actually lying. How do you know he's been dreaming of her? If he tells you he hasn't, do you have any way to prove him wrong?

@drummerwannabe Said

Let me just say... if you don't care or don't want opposite opinions (from the answer you want us to give you), then you probably shouldn't post this stuff. Or if you do want to, maybe post it in your journal area.

The whole reason people are "judging" your OP is because this is a Relationships area. Why would we go and read up on your journals when its not in your journal area or have links or references to your journal? So don't get upset with us cause we don't know the info. Post these things in your journal area and, so there's no misunderstanding, maybe share links in your OP to these specific journals so we can get the backstory.

We can only give you our opinion and insight with the information given. Don't expect people to do a whole background check on your life. Sorry, we don't have time for it.

@Verstehen Said

I didnt ask you to care or make time for it.. was is this counseling... steups...I agree I might be wrong but not on the statements they made..

@Verstehen Said

now you see this is a response I can appreciate... not like the others... I believe its only logical to dream of person you have been with first in your life..

@Eaglebauer Said

It might be logical for you, I can understand that. But it might not be the same for others..you know? I can say with all honesty that I've never dreamed of most people I've been intimate with, including my first. Really! It's true!

I think it's entirely possible that he's not lying to you.

@boxer Said

Every time I have sex, I think of you Eagle... Especially after the "special" hug you had floydie give me.

@essenceofjme Said

I am sorry this happened to you, I can't understand what would have motivated you to ask a question like that, though. Nitpicking like this will almost always cause a bad situation...I think you were expecting him to say no. Is it possible you never really gave him a chance to begin with?

I dunno, it also seems you don't like what you're hearing from everyone and now we're the bad guys for answering a question you asked.

@Eaglebauer Said

It might be logical for you, I can understand that. But it might not be the same for others..you know? I can say with all honesty that I've never dreamed of most people I've been intimate with, including my first. Really! It's true!

I think it's entirely possible that he's not lying to you.