OK...ummm...I've known a number of people with mental illness,some of which are bi polar disorder, personality disorder, sociopathic disorder, and Schizophrenia.
Each of those people were violent to one extent or another, whether it was to themselves or others.
Mostly mentally violent, or abusive towards others and themselves, but each also have displayed physical violence towards close family and friends.
I'm not saying that there are not people out there that are in fact mild mannered and not abusive, but that has not been my experience ever.
Also, I've spoken to a number of people whom have family members with some of the above disorders, and the same things happened to them as well.
On there stable days...I have no problem leaving my babies with them when I go out shopping...but I would not trust them on other days at all.
The unfortunate truth is that my husband and I have had to stop communication with family members due to thier violent and unpradictable nature, not for lack of love, but rather for the safty of our family.
There is a fella I love dearly that is Bi Polar and Have had to call the police because he was stalking someone, and it was a scary deal...also he has sexually assulted people...not a cool thing.
I really think in many ways we don't talk about these things as a society, so we have this unrealistic image of people...and really...these people i'm talking about would not likly display any of the violent behaviours outside there intimate group of family and friends...as it would be devistating to them if anyone found out about thier illness.
This isn't just my personal experience, but also supported by studying in psychology class, and on my own.
I would never not talk to or interact with someone at work or anything because of a mental illness, but I'd also be watching for signs of an off day etc, and take steps to take care of myself and family from any form of violent behaviour.
Namaste
Shannix
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