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Unthinkablyclever On August 12, 2011




Phila, Pennsylvania
#1New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 21:54:50
I had a debate about my son with his father. See, my son just turned 5yrs old. The other day he made a statement "I don't have girlfriends I have boyfriends" and His father went crazy. Now me, i was trying not interfere with his father as he was totally going off on my son,cause you know he was doing his fatherly talk but i had to intervene. I had to put this fool in his place because it is clear that a 5yr old don't know anything about boyfriend/girlfriend relationships on an intamite level..right??? All my son knows is he have fun playing cars and trains with his little friends. Am i wrong for wanting to bodyslam my boyfriend for making my son feel like he did something wrong? He even told my son it was gay to say that. Do this idiot even knows that our son don't even know what gay is?? We had a huge argument over this.. Should i have just kept my mouth closed? Was i wrong?
eternus_somnium On August 27, 2014
clinically crackers





, United States (general)
#2New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 21:57:13
I don't think you were wrong. It sounds like the father is completely overreacting.
drman321 On December 28, 2013




, Florida
#3New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 21:57:21
@Unthinkablyclever Said

I had a debate about my son with his father. See, my son just turned 5yrs old. The other day he made a statement "I don't have girlfriends I have boyfriends" and His father went crazy. Now me, i was trying not interfere with his father as he was totally going off on my son,cause you know he was doing his fatherly talk but i had to intervene. I had to put this fool in his place because it is clear that a 5yr old don't know anything about boyfriend/girlfriend relationships on an intamite level..right??? All my son knows is he have fun playing cars and trains with his little friends. Am i wrong for wanting to bodyslam my boyfriend for making my son feel like he did something wrong? He even told my son it was gay to say that. Do this idiot even knows that our son don't even know what gay is?? We had a huge argument over this.. Should i have just kept my mouth closed? Was i wrong?


It is hard to tell if you overreacted or not. Could you post the video of his outburst? Or the police report?
woodss On December 10, 2018




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#4New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 21:58:23
:LOL: what are you feeding him? Seems hes growing up too fast whats next him shaving

I just love coming on here to just to rub it in, seems he wants to know about the birds and the bees early
cisslybee2012 On January 30, 2013

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Bronx, New York
#5New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 22:36:41
@Unthinkablyclever Said

I had a debate about my son with his father. See, my son just turned 5yrs old. The other day he made a statement "I don't have girlfriends I have boyfriends" and His father went crazy. Now me, i was trying not interfere with his father as he was totally going off on my son,cause you know he was doing his fatherly talk but i had to intervene. I had to put this fool in his place because it is clear that a 5yr old don't know anything about boyfriend/girlfriend relationships on an intamite level..right??? All my son knows is he have fun playing cars and trains with his little friends. Am i wrong for wanting to bodyslam my boyfriend for making my son feel like he did something wrong? He even told my son it was gay to say that. Do this idiot even knows that our son don't even know what gay is?? We had a huge argument over this.. Should i have just kept my mouth closed? Was i wrong?


Hell no you weren't wrong!

You're supposed to protect your child and lay your life on the line to do it if you have to.

I'm talking Officer Ellen Ripley here.


Body slam his a** if you have to girl! Go ape to protect your baby! Let the lioness in you shine baby. Don't worry about a grown a** man.

And you're right, a little boy don't know anything about relationships or gay. So protect your child from being shoved into playing house. Let him have his childhood and enjoy it to the fullest.
Unthinkablyclever On August 12, 2011




Phila, Pennsylvania
#6New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 22:57:00
@cisslybee2012 Said

Hell no you weren't wrong!

You're supposed to protect your child and lay your life on the line to do it if you have to.

I'm talking Officer Ellen Ripley here.


Body slam his a** if you have to girl! Go ape to protect your baby! Let the lioness in you shine baby. Don't worry about a grown a** man.

And you're right, a little boy don't know anything about relationships or gay. So protect your child from being shoved into playing house. Let him have his childhood and enjoy it to the fullest.



Yes...Thats exactly how i feel.. And then the idiot didnt understand why my son said "I don't understand" when he asked him "What you mean your by boyfriend" I said "It's obvious that he's telling you,my FRIEND who is a BOY. I said "you a** he's saying he's in his way he's not gay thats why his friend are boys hes telling you,idiot he dont play girly games like dolls and things like that, he play boy games like cars and trains. thats why he has BOYFRIENDS...smh...he told me to mind my business when he's talking to his son,lol I was fuming..
Unthinkablyclever On August 12, 2011




Phila, Pennsylvania
#7New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 22:58:25
@drman321 Said

It is hard to tell if you overreacted or not. Could you post the video of his outburst? Or the police report?



chisa96 On December 29, 2014
Supreme Goddess





Out in Nature, Wisconsin
#8New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 23:19:01
Nah, from that it doesn't sound like you were wrong; it sounds like your boyfriend is a homophobic douche. Didn't anyone ever explain to him how contagious cooties are at that age?
Dark_Tink On December 30, 2018
<3 Boobie <3





, Canada
#9New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 23:21:01
I see nothing wrong in the way that you acted. He's a child and as you said he doesn't understand the grownup meaning of that word. To him they are his boyfriends because they are boys and his friends.
Unthinkablyclever On August 12, 2011




Phila, Pennsylvania
#10New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 23:32:07
@chisa96 Said

Nah, from that it doesn't sound like you were wrong; it sounds like your boyfriend is a homophobic douche. Didn't anyone ever explain to him how contagious cooties are at that age?



Oh i forgot to mention his mom is a lesbian whom he's totally embarassed by because she dresses and acts like a man. Thats another reason why i snapped out..Take your insecurities to a shrink don't take it out on my son, I Mean this argument got intense cause YES,i did take it there with him.
chisa96 On December 29, 2014
Supreme Goddess





Out in Nature, Wisconsin
#11New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 23:57:03
@Unthinkablyclever Said

Oh i forgot to mention his mom is a lesbian whom he's totally embarassed by because she dresses and acts like a man. Thats another reason why i snapped out..Take your insecurities to a shrink don't take it out on my son, I Mean this argument got intense cause YES,i did take it there with him.



Yeah, it's more understandable now how he didn't think of cooties, but he still needs to work out his s***.
Leon On about 6 hours ago




San Diego, California
#12New Post! Aug 02, 2011 @ 23:59:49
I think if you did it privately with him, there is nothing wrong with that. And, yes, he was completely over-reacting. He didn't even comprehend what the boy was saying.
Eaglebauer On July 23, 2019
Moderator
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Saint Louis, Missouri
#13New Post! Aug 03, 2011 @ 00:10:51
@Leon Said

I think if you did it privately with him, there is nothing wrong with that. And, yes, he was completely over-reacting. He didn't even comprehend what the boy was saying.



This more or less is the perfect reply I think.

Your son obviously means that his friends are boys and that he likes playing with them...which for a five year old boy is completely healthy (my younger son is also five). And his father was completely misconstruing that.

Like Leon said, you ought to confront him about it but do it when your son isn't around.
Leon On about 6 hours ago




San Diego, California
#14New Post! Aug 03, 2011 @ 00:23:08
@Eaglebauer Said

This more or less is the perfect reply I think.



Damn, why did I get zero points for that then?
Eaglebauer On July 23, 2019
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Saint Louis, Missouri
#15New Post! Aug 03, 2011 @ 00:25:29
@Leon Said

Damn, why did I get zero points for that then?



DAMN IT!

I'm giving you kudos to make up for it.
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