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natz On January 13, 2009

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#1New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 00:27:41
I dont understand all these boyfriends,girlfriends,wifes,husbands,who claim they love there partners,and are playing with ,looking wondering,and wanting to know or see if they have a chance with another,
They love the other until it doesn't work ,then it's loving the partner again.
I find it hard to get past the one who was going to be my Partner,and thats been a while,
I wonder sometimes if loving ,Isn't just who is there for them at that moment,and not love at all.
Ms_Monica On January 14, 2009

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#2New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 00:29:42
peole dont put anough emphasis on love anymore, just convience and act like its a game more than something special. Thats my opinon
kelkel1967 On January 09, 2012




greensboro, North Carolina
#3New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 00:34:55
@natz Said

I dont understand all these boyfriends,girlfriends,wifes,husbands,who claim they love there partners,and are playing with ,looking wondering,and wanting to know or see if they have a chance with another,
They love the other until it doesn't work ,then it's loving the partner again.
I find it hard to get past the one who was going to be my Partner,and thats been a while,
I wonder sometimes if loving ,Isn't just who is there for them at that moment,and not love at all.



people live for the moment ,love for the day ,and still have hope forever -not knowing the plan. maybe we dont as as deeply as as wa live longer ,as the world changes!!
natz On January 13, 2009

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#4New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 00:35:10
@Ms_Monica Said

peole dont put anough emphasis on love anymore, just convience and act like its a game more than something special. Thats my opinon



It's more like someone there for them, Not love that no one can come between or ever take away..
roBingoodfElLOW On January 06, 2010
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#5New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 00:37:07
For me there is no such thing as love until you feel the love you get through having a child.
For me thats when life really began.
drbeaucroft On January 17, 2013

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#6New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 00:55:09
I think the problem is that noone really knows what real love is. Love for me is dying for someone if it came to it, without even thinking about it...in fact not just dying but dying a million times over.
I have said this to others and they have been able to understand it and called me a liar. But I know my own heart and its capabilities. I have been in situations where I have had to make that choice.

I wish everyone had some kind of aura around them...something we could all see to tell us how good, or how bad a person was...then we could find someone like ourselves...But it doesnt work that way, but people can change...People can be changed with just words and with charisma...I have seen people change their own lives and living a more loving and fruitful one just by watching a movie! Everyone feels like a better person after watching groundhog day....or a walk to remember for example...Its just teaching others, thats the hard part...Making them understand what life is really all about, then they realise that before they met you they never lived at all x
natz On January 13, 2009

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#7New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 00:59:26
@drbeaucroft Said

I think the problem is that noone really knows what real love is. Love for me is dying for someone if it came to it, without even thinking about it...in fact not just dying but dying a million times over.
I have said this to others and they have been able to understand it and called me a liar. But I know my own heart and its capabilities. I have been in situations where I have had to make that choice.

I wish everyone had some kind of aura around them...something we could all see to tell us how good, or how bad a person was...then we could find someone like ourselves...But it doesnt work that way, but people can change...People can be changed with just words and with charisma...I have seen people change their own lives and living a more loving and fruitful one just by watching a movie! Everyone feels like a better person after watching groundhog day....or a walk to remember for example...Its just teaching others, thats the hard part...Making them understand what life is really all about, then they realise that before they met you they never lived at all x



Wonderful reply.Also to understand what true love really is.
BeTTyBeLL On November 28, 2010
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#8New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:01:19
YOu know sometimes "Love" just isn't enough..you cant eat love, or turn the lights on with love. Sometimes, love fades too, it doesn't mean it wasn't ever there, or that the person had the concept of love wrong, maybe two people grew apart, when a couple doesn't grow and change together, or at least somewhat stay in the same mind frame it makes the relationship almost unbearable, and sometimes, those same people, while they may still love each other, and die for each other, just can't find what it was at the start and changed so differently form each other, that the love turns into something else, or fades all together.
medi94 On May 15, 2010




Atlanta, Georgia
#9New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:07:38
isn't it human nature that makes people fall in love?

and isn't also human nature that makes people want to play around?

its shameful, in a way, isn't it?
natz On January 13, 2009

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#10New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:10:48
I am not talking about fading love,That happens,
I am talking about looking while you are in love with someone,and never leaving that person,Then when the looking and wanting doesn't work out,Then going back to that partner as if he or she is the love of your life,
It's more of a someone being there for you,Not love
kelkel1967 On January 09, 2012




greensboro, North Carolina
#11New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:13:45
@BeTTyBeLL Said

YOu know sometimes "Love" just isn't enough..you cant eat love, or turn the lights on with love. Sometimes, love fades too, it doesn't mean it wasn't ever there, or that the person had the concept of love wrong, maybe two people grew apart, when a couple doesn't grow and change together, or at least somewhat stay in the same mind frame it makes the relationship almost unbearable, and sometimes, those same people, while they may still love each other, and die for each other, just can't find what it was at the start and changed so differently form each other, that the love turns into something else, or fades all together.



you are so right to think the way you think !!
medi94 On May 15, 2010




Atlanta, Georgia
#12New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:14:41
It is not really necessary for one to be present in a loving relationship. -that's probably why it happens.

being not around the person one loves makes him/her look around more I guess.
BeTTyBeLL On November 28, 2010
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Kosciusko, Mississippi
#13New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:14:45
YOu wanna know what makes people play around, It is the thoguht "I might find someone better, someone who treats me better, someone who finds me worth talking too, someone who thinks I am attractive and wants me, the unfortunate part, is that in most long term relationships that new, flirty, fresh, I gotta have ya now s*** fades..

Advise for people thinking of cheating, ask yourself this question: "IN THE END, AM I OK WITH BEING ALONE"
Because I promise the other questions are useless if you can't honestly answer that one. Nothing good comes of cheating, maybe some couples have made it, I doubt a really percentage have, but maybe..over all someone usualy gets hurt, and it the person you loved, then in the end, you could be left alone..some people can't get over that betrail.
angelcake On January 18, 2016
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Eastleigh, United Kingdom
#14New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:17:13
@BeTTyBeLL Said

YOu wanna know what makes people play around, It is the thoguht "I might find someone better, someone who treats me better, someone who finds me worth talking too, someone who thinks I am attractive and wants me, the unfortunate part, is that in most long term relationships that new, flirty, fresh, I gotta have ya now s*** fades..

Advise for people thinking of cheating, ask yourself this question: "IN THE END, AM I OK WITH BEING ALONE"
Because I promise the other questions are useless if you can't honestly answer that one. Nothing good comes of cheating, maybe some couples have made it, I doubt a really percentage have, but maybe..over all someone usualy gets hurt, and it the person you loved, then in the end, you could be left alone..some people can't get over that betrail.


I think the best question to ask yourself is "why am I with my current partner?" if you're considering cheating.
medi94 On May 15, 2010




Atlanta, Georgia
#15New Post! Jan 11, 2009 @ 01:18:21
@BeTTyBeLL Said

YOu wanna know what makes people play around, It is the thoguht "I might find someone better, someone who treats me better, someone who finds me worth talking too, someone who thinks I am attractive and wants me, the unfortunate part, is that in most long term relationships that new, flirty, fresh, I gotta have ya now s*** fades..

Advise for people thinking of cheating, ask yourself this question: "IN THE END, AM I OK WITH BEING ALONE"
Because I promise the other questions are useless if you can't honestly answer that one. Nothing good comes of cheating, maybe some couples have made it, I doubt a really percentage have, but maybe..over all someone usualy gets hurt, and it the person you loved, then in the end, you could be left alone..some people can't get over that betrail.


you have a very good point there, but really, they might not even be in love in the first place if they are trying to always look for someone better don't you think?

I mean, if you're in love, you're in love and at that moment or time, your partner is the best person in the world next to you or something like that.
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