@Sparklegirl Said
I have never cheated so can only presume the reasons behind it. Most likey to be is that they are looking for some excitement ir are unable to control their urges.
If it ever got to the point that somebody was offering all the excitement on a plate to me, I would either pack up and go with them or politely decline their advances. That is what being in an adult and mature loving relationship is all about, sustaining the love.
Hubby and I talked about that one day. If it ever got to the point that our love/interest in the other started to wane, we would let the other know so that it could be worked out. IF nothing worked, we would part ways BEFORE we even thought about starting something new with another person.
We have both be cheated on before by others, so that is the last thing we would want to do to each other.
@Sparklegirl Said
I happen to know that a certain someone has made numerous advances towards my guy but he has turned them down. Being honest and open helps in a situation like this and he would never cheat any more than I would becuase we have more respect and love for each other
You too? What is with people like that?!?!? They don't have any self-worth or just that big of a whore that they HAVE to go after someone that is already in a relationship? Is it some kind of conquest for them?
Not going into details here, but I am quite glad to say that the 'woman' in our situation got verbally b**** slapped by hubby when she wouldn't take the hint that he is happily married and has no interest in her, or anyone else that acts in such a pathetic manner.
Too often couples forget that communication...IMO anyway...is one of the biggest parts of the relationship. No communication, even about the little things can be disastrous for a relationship.