@townie_guy Said
Noticed here that everyone has nice little theories and blah blah blah. What we actually want are some first hand accounts of experiences from cheating and/or being cheated on. And dont tell me everyone on this site is perfect and in the perfect relationship cuz if so ur all a bunch of liars. Thank you now lets get the stories rolling.
For myself and hubby, we have had talks about the "what if" situation. In previous relationships, we have both been cheated on, so we know what it's like to be on one side of the fence.
We have both flat out said that if our feelings for each other started to wane, we would end the relationship before we emotionally/sexually got involved with someone else. Knowing what it's like to be cheated on, we wouldn't want to do that to one another.
Cripes, if I wanted to cheat, it would be easy as hell, since his best friend(of 20yrs) has made it obvious in subtle and not so subtle ways that he has the hots for me(he too is married, but he and his wife have an 'open marriage' ). Not interested. I love my hubby just as much now, after 11yrs(9yrs married), then I did when we first told each other "I love you". Even more so really. We have been though much together and knowing that we are there for one another, I can't even fathom cheating on him.
Even for him, if he had wanted to, he could have cheated. He has been hit on many times by women...even AFTER they know he's married.