Hello all. First post here. I just need some help here figuring out where I stand in college and what is probably going to happen to me based on what you guys know.
I attend UNL in Nebraska as an Out of state student from Kansas. I don't know anyone attending. about 20,000 undergrads. It's the end of week one, and I haven't really met anyone as a "friend" (as in, that I can call up to hang out with whenever). Most days are just walking from class to class, seeing everyone with all their friends, myself being alone all week! I find it extremely irritating and boring!
Now, for some background on myself--I'm not the quiet shy kid complaining about how he can't make friends. I was a very popular kid in high school, top of my class,involved in many activities, was the Drum Major of my band (which, oddly enough, is nowhere near nerdy at my school; this person needs to have a huge personality). I also play Jazz keyboard and am very outgoing. It's just hard here, as there really aren't opportunities to have a conversation last more than a few minutes/class period.
But here in college, obviously none of this matters as being a Freshman, nobody knows who you really are. I joined a Fraternity this week, hoping to meet people soon. They really enjoyed me and loved to have me pledge, even this late.
Now my question is, what do you guys think, from experience? Will I make friends soon? I know it's still a little early to expect friends. Is it easy to meet girls in a frat? Despite my nature in high school, I never have been with a girl or hardly kissed one. It's not that I never had the opportunity, I just was always a bit scared. Be totally honest on what you guys think. I'm just a little quieter than usual here, as it's a daunting place...thanks in advance. and Sorry for all the text, I just realized how long this is.