Out of League

Every now and then you behold truly angelic beings of the opposite gender. Sometimes they appear to possess all the attributes of someone you'd want to spend the rest of your days with. Sometimes, the mere presence of this being gives you lumps in the throat, butterflies in the belly,wobbles in the knees and goose steps in your hearts beat.... You get so dizzy you do things without thinking..... You start chatting them up, showing them all the charm you can muster, all the lines you can find and you end up giving them all the attention they don't need.....

They try to let you down easily being the angle that they are..... but you"re on pursuit.....

Why don't some pursuers stop and think that maybe, he/she is out of his/her league?

Don't understand the question. I don't think anyone is out of anyone's league. After all we're all just flesh and bones like the next person.

After that it's what one THINKS of themselves that puts them in that invisible upper or lower class league.

I really hate the whole "out of my league" thing. I understand feeling nervous to approach someone, but I try to put myself in the other person's shoes.

If I were the person seen as out of someone's league, I'd be very disappointed this person didn't even try to talk to me. I might be missing out on getting to know a very cool person, for whatever type of relationship. Just because that person considers me better than they are, I may not feel that way. I may actually be very much interested in getting to know them.

So why not take a shot? If the person rejects you because they think they're better than you then they're probably not worth your time anyhow. Someone worth getting to know will give you a chance at the very least.

it's the person not their looks or what they have

sounds informative to me....will note on that

& what the hells that meant to mean.....you don't understand i guess lol

Going by the number of perfectly happy apparent mis-matches I've seen in my life, and the number of destructive "perfect matches", I'd say, forget this "league" rubbish, and just go for it!
Once in my youth I held back for that reason, and twenty years later found out the lady concerned had had a crush on me at the time and was too shy to let me know, lol, two love-struck teens missing out because both thought the other was "out of their league"! Too late by then, both married with kids, but oh, what might have been!

Becuase of the way they make u feel, that's why we chse people like that. And its because they seem so superior that we are attracted to them, it is in our nature. And the more they put us down the more we want them. Its just the way we are. If something was simple to get u wouldn't want it neither would u feel any sense of achievement.