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x_Laura_x On January 28, 2021




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:44:35
I have a friend that I talk to quite a bit.

But he likes me, and he makes it really obvious that he likes me. He makes loads of references about wanting to have sex with me and other crap like that

He's always complimenting me and it was alright at first but now it's just plain annoying.

I don't want to have to tell him to f*** off but sometimes I feel like it

Should I be flattered?

How can I tell him that I'm not interested in him, without being too harsh?

trolly_mctroll On August 03, 2012




trollworld, Tromelin Island
#2New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:45:56
honesty is the best policy
maximillion On December 13, 2016




, Minnesota
#3New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:47:30
say your flatterd but he's not for you
lostangel91 On April 22, 2009




blackburn, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:50:34
maximillion is right!!

you need 2 tell him the truth but without being horrible!!
x_Laura_x On January 28, 2021




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:51:05
I just don't know how... I don't know how to bring it up in conversation
markfox01 On October 29, 2018
innit!





Welshman in Brum.., United Kin
#6New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:52:15
Shag him.. then tell him he has a small d*** and is s*** in bed.. that should shut him up..
lostangel91 On April 22, 2009




blackburn, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:52:34
well when he does it aigain say it to him then. he needs to know how you feel or he will think it is ok!!
Wingsy On November 27, 2020
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Wingsville,
#8New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:52:57
When he starts making comments to you, Laura...that's when you tell him. There's no need for you to try to bring it up, since it seems that he will make some comment on his own.
MlissaBeth On February 13, 2013
Wait for it!





Tucson, Arizona
#9New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:55:52
@x_laura_x Said
I just don't know how... I don't know how to bring it up in conversation


The next time he makes a reference to you about sex or something of the nature bring it up at that point. When he gives an opening, take that opportunity to say something to him.
x_Laura_x On January 28, 2021




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#10New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:59:26
OK I will try... Thanks guys. Anything to get him off my back He's a nice guy and all but not that nice.
trolly_mctroll On August 03, 2012




trollworld, Tromelin Island
#11New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 12:06:59
@markfox01 Said
Shag him.. then tell him he has a small d*** and is s*** in bed.. that should shut him up..


OMG how dare you.. ban this poster immediatly!
markthered On June 17, 2013




, United Kingdom
#12New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 12:17:46
use humour if you can - usually makes things easier
lostangel91 On April 22, 2009




blackburn, United Kingdom
#13New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 12:21:42
yeah mark is right!!

humour softens the blow!!
MlissaBeth On February 13, 2013
Wait for it!





Tucson, Arizona
#14New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 12:30:16
@lostangel91 Said
yeah mark is right!!

humour softens the blow!!


yes but the downside to humor is the fact that the other person may think you are joking. You can't joke around with someone and expect them to believe you.
glitter_sniffer On August 25, 2015
Om nom nom





Glasgow, United Kingdom
#15New Post! Jun 23, 2008 @ 12:30:22
I had this problem too, a guy I worked with done the same and I saw him more as a friend than anything else.
It ended up that he tried to kiss me one night and I pushed him away - we fell out over it all and I'm now dating a mutual friend and he still doesn't talk to me and work is a nightmare.
I definitly agree you have to tell him before he makes a move and it ruins a friendship - even if you just talk to him about a guy you like and make loads of hints as to how you love talking to him as a friend, and much you love having him as a friend and stuff.

Good luck with it sweety, I know how hard it cane be, I just wish I didn't chicken out.
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