Men who are supported by thier women finacially

@3rdTimeLucky Said

My father had old fashioned views, as a man, when he dated my mum, it was his job to pay, he would collect her from her house and take her home safe again after! he asked my grandparents for her hand in marriage and always opened doors for her ect, his views didn't change when they married either, he was a gentleman and I believe that was the norm within his circle of friends and for his generation!

Times have changed obviously, women more so, now than ever, pay their fair share when they go out and I guess its because they have become more independent.

BUT what if your significant other doesn't work out of choice, knowing that the misses will pay for everything! should he at least be doing something to contribute financially? would you be happy to support them whilst they sat on their arse?





Go from the point of view of men providing like how it's old fashioned and women providing. But is it right that your other half sits on their arses all day and gets you to pay for holidays?

@ssnot_me Said

does any of this include house work, taking care of children.. etc? my wife does not work as much as she used to, because we would rather her raise our child than the daycare center.

@3rdTimeLucky Said

No, just in general, taking care of children I consider a 24 hour job and often a thankless one! Im talking about them not earning money to contribute when they are indeed capable but chose not to!

@3rdTimeLucky Said

My father had old fashioned views, as a man, when he dated my mum, it was his job to pay, he would collect her from her house and take her home safe again after! he asked my grandparents for her hand in marriage and always opened doors for her ect, his views didn't change when they married either, he was a gentleman and I believe that was the norm within his circle of friends and for his generation!

Times have changed obviously, women more so, now than ever, pay their fair share when they go out and I guess its because they have become more independent.

BUT what if your significant other doesn't work out of choice, knowing that the misses will pay for everything! should he at least be doing something to contribute financially? would you be happy to support them whilst they sat on their arse?





Go from the point of view of men providing like how it's old fashioned and women providing. But is it right that your other half sits on their arses all day and gets you to pay for holidays?

@3rdTimeLucky Said

My father had old fashioned views, as a man, when he dated my mum, it was his job to pay, he would collect her from her house and take her home safe again after! he asked my grandparents for her hand in marriage and always opened doors for her ect, his views didn't change when they married either, he was a gentleman and I believe that was the norm within his circle of friends and for his generation!

Times have changed obviously, women more so, now than ever, pay their fair share when they go out and I guess its because they have become more independent.

BUT what if your significant other doesn't work out of choice, knowing that the misses will pay for everything! should he at least be doing something to contribute financially? would you be happy to support them whilst they sat on their arse?





Go from the point of view of men providing like how it's old fashioned and women providing. But is it right that your other half sits on their arses all day and gets you to pay for holidays?

@floydgirrl Said

My cousin just divorced her husband. He apparently sat around all day while she worked. He couldn't (nor tried) to find a job. He had things to do around the house but sat aorund playing video games and emailing her all day. SHe finally had enough. He didn't improve. DIVORCE.

@floydgirrl Said

My cousin just divorced her husband. He apparently sat around all day while she worked. He couldn't (nor tried) to find a job. He had things to do around the house but sat aorund playing video games and emailing her all day. SHe finally had enough. He didn't improve. DIVORCE.

@GSnap Said


Even if there are no kids, if the wife doesn't care, no one else should be bugged about it either. I have one 35 year old female friend who is dating a 24 year old hottie. He is dumb as a rock and she is a doctor who is very very smart. He barely makes a dime, and is always 'in between jobs' but she is happy as a clam, no pun intended, lol cuz she says he rocks her socks off in the sack. Both of their needs are being met, so who cares if it is traditional. It's all their business, no one else's!

@someone_else Said

Does your friend, by any chance, live in Kentucky?

@GSnap Said

Nope, im on the east coast.

I bet this happens more than we think. And why not, men have been doing this for years! LOL Women now work like and earn as much and sometimes more than men, if they want to have an arm trophy and the other person is ok with it, more power to 'em!

@someone_else Said

Okay, I know my geography is bad but I thought Kentucky was also on the east coast. Or does the east coast only mean the northern east coast?

The only reason I asked you that, btw, was that I knew a guy online whose fianc?e was becoming a doctor and she told him that she would support him as long as he took care of her 'other needs' - which included rocking her socks off in the sack. It seemed strange that you have a friend in almost exactly the same scenario.

@GSnap Said

My apologies for not being more clear, i meant a coastal state (VA). Kentucky is a close neighbor tho. Last I checked, they hadnt moved from here~!

I had a feeling you probably knew someone like this, I bet it is becoming more popular.

Off topic, holy cow, it just went from bright and sunny to a torrential downpour~! LOL