Mate quality

another thing too that kinda bothers me is the people who arent in a relationship and you talk (or vent on them) about your relationship and all they have to say is:
"you should be lucky your in a relationship"

i mean... if i should consider myself lucky that im in a relationship that doesnt make me happy, then something is wrong. (not that im not happy lol im just using that as an example).
ok im done getting off topic now lol sorry.

If your in a realtionship that doesn't make you happy, then you need to think about...no, definately call it quits. You cannot allow yourself to become continually miserable in a relationship for any reason...not kids, or your job or anything. A relationship is like an ocean; often times the waters are calm, warm, and peaceful; other times there are waves and the water is choppy and rough. Rough tide happens to everyone at some point and some get through it. But don't get marooned on a beach cause of rough seas. Build a raft and sail away to calmer waters...know what I mean?