@loveis Said Hummm..
That's a really touchy one..
I guess if they were both truly okay with it, then why not -
though it may be hard for you and I to understand..
Alot of men place their perception of their manhood on sex and sexual performance..it may be horribly unbearable for the husband not being able to satisfy his wife in this way, and he may be fearful he will eventually end up losing her as a result..
It's very complicated..and if no problems ensue from the other mans attentions, then I don't really see how it can hurt..
I suspect it would be giving the husband a sense of his sexual manhood back again..
..I know a paraplegic who had these same exact feelings, though he wasn't married, yet he was missing that sexual connection.
He was 18 at the time of his accident; he began talking this way around 5 or 6 years later.
That's so sad isn't it, but I know some men that will only date physically disabled women because as I was told " They'll do anything for me cause I'm giving her the time of day & no other man wants a gimp" and that makes me
How can people use other's misfortunes for their own ends, what's become of society in general??? And as for the Paraplegic you know I hope that he finds love and caring with a woman who loves him just as he is and I know there are women like that, quite a few family members and friends I know met and married men that were paraplegic before they met, so tell him to hang in there the best is worth the wait.