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lilbear On January 18, 2010
Aequitas / Veritas!


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#1New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:18:41
O.K. this is true I know of a couple that have been married for over 10 years, the husband suffered an accident that left him paralyzed from waist down, for the last year he has been interviewing other men. For what?? to become his wife's lover because he no longer can, one strong condition is that he has to be in the room and participating with his upper torso while the lover gives his wife pleasure and together, himself doing what he can and the man he hired, working together have to bring his wife absolute sexual satisfaction.

I'm in a numb state on this one, has anyone ever heard of this before, do you think this is ok or weird, is the husband being considerate of his wife's sexual needs, help I need to hear what other's think of this situation any input at all the positive and negative effects this could have. ANYONE??????? I'm just shocked and don't know what to say to them when they talk about it.
carolineyes On August 29, 2010




Whitby, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:20:10
Lucky b****
vicki_t On October 15, 2011




, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:25:45
up to them.

If he was being really considerate he would allow her a discreet affair. That's why I'll never get married. I would never allow anyone to choose my lovers for me. Any future husband of mine should know that I'll be choosing my own lovers thank you very much!

But seriously, it is up to them.No-one could knowhow they would cope with such an awful situation.
iliterate_enginere On February 12, 2010

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Wichita, Kansas
#4New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:29:40
w/e floats their boat. I'm sure similar things have been done by other couples. I personally think that if the wife was loyal she wouldn't allow it.
paramour On July 30, 2014




Purgatory Beach,
#5New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:36:13
why don't they just buy a f***ing vibrator? or resort to oral sex? there's plenty o' ways to receive sexual pleasure without resorting to someone else.
angelstar529 On November 08, 2012




Hancock, Iowa
#6New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:37:45
I actually read this and thought...Wow...someone who is considerate of his lovers/wife's needs. I was actually pretty impressed. While I could say that it would be odd, as a woman, to have someone else pick out a lover for me. The husband in this situation seems like the type of man who would involve his wife in the decision making process because he is not only thinking of him self, he is thinking of the satisfaction and happiness of his wife, he just wishes to be involved in the situation, and really, who could blame him.

If i sit here and try to put myself into the husbands place, knowing that i could never satisfy my lover again whom i would WANT to be able to mke happy in every sense of the word, I would like to think that i would be able to make the same decision he is. He knows his wife is not going to be 100% happy without having a decent sex life and she could never have that with him again so he wants to find a way to make that possible for her, without losing her as his wife. I honestly think this is a pretty open, honest and novel way to approach the situation. Instead of feeling sorry for himself, the husband is taking the proactive approach to the situation and I am sure that if the wife had a problem with the situation, she would voice as they appear to be a couple who can talk about anything to eachother! I think its AWESOME!
angelstar529 On November 08, 2012




Hancock, Iowa
#7New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:39:42
@paramour Said
why don't they just buy a f***ing vibrator? or resort to oral sex? there's plenty o' ways to receive sexual pleasure without resorting to someone else.


Ok i just HAVE to say this...there is NO way in hell that a vibrator or a tongue or finger or whatever would EVER take the place of d***. I'm just saying. That would NOT make me happy for the rest of me sexual life.
paramour On July 30, 2014




Purgatory Beach,
#8New Post! Feb 16, 2008 @ 23:43:49
@angelstar529 Said
Ok i just HAVE to say this...there is NO way in hell that a vibrator or a tongue or finger or whatever would EVER take the place of d***. I'm just saying. That would NOT make me happy for the rest of me sexual life.


Then you must've not met the right vibrator/tongue yet.

Perhaps the guy's actually being selfish and doesn't want to do the work so he proposed an allegedly selfless plan to pleasure his wife with another guy's d***.
aceuvclubs On August 22, 2020
You with the face!





Seattle, Washington
#13New Post! Feb 17, 2008 @ 00:06:00
Sucks to be paralyzed! That of course goes without saying though.
loveis On January 15, 2010
brat-inella


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In the mirror,
#15New Post! Feb 17, 2008 @ 03:45:23
Hummm..
That's a really touchy one..
I guess if they were both truly okay with it, then why not -
though it may be hard for you and I to understand..
Alot of men place their perception of their manhood on sex and sexual performance..it may be horribly unbearable for the husband not being able to satisfy his wife in this way, and he may be fearful he will eventually end up losing her as a result..
It's very complicated..and if no problems ensue from the other mans attentions, then I don't really see how it can hurt..
I suspect it would be giving the husband a sense of his sexual manhood back again..

..I know a paraplegic who had these same exact feelings, though he wasn't married, yet he was missing that sexual connection.
He was 18 at the time of his accident; he began talking this way around 5 or 6 years later.
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