@tickleme Said
My boyfriend and I have had several problems lately. Firstly from him not spending enough time with me (which we later talked about and resolved) as he started to realize he wasn't giving enough to the relationship. Then to having an incident recently with him having a friend of his who is a married woman call him up asking him out to dinner and dancing and instead of telling her he would be with me he said he would be working. He later broke up with me over that and then we talked and resolved things.
This time...he has been very busy with work and we havent seen each other all week. I've been chronically ill with a kidney infection today and really wanted to see him. He works where i live so when i saw him around i asked if he was coming over tonight to spend a little time with me and he said "of course" and then 15 mins after he knocks off from work he sends me a text "Sorry cant make it tonight, have bills to pay and shopping to do" so i write back "Thats ok, do you think maybe you could spare a half an hour for a coffee or something?" He didnt respond, so i called him, no answer, then i called again and he picked up and shouted into the phone "I am driving" and hung up on me and i havent heard a thing from him since.
For me i think this is good enough reason to end things with him. I am feeling completely gutted and heart broken. I need to get my apartment key and mail box key back from him and then i can go NC. This is going to be hard as he works where i live.
Does anyone think i am to over the top about ending this for this reason?
Any replies or help would be greatly appreciated.
Move on... you deserve better.
J.R.