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kaylinrae On April 15, 2009




Algonac, Michigan
#1New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 07:33:36
I'm finding it really difficult to make friends. I worry that the conversations I have with people are dull and I feel my social skills should be better. I am socially inept. I'd desperately like to meet people who I can talk with easily but don't know how to. I feel like an ass.
x_Laura_x On March 13, 2023




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 07:36:30
I'm the same... I'm a social retard yet in September I found myself making a ton of new friends when I changed schools.

I think you just need to gain a little confidence, it isn't easy but I think if you have it then making friends seems to come a little easier.
aceuvclubs On August 22, 2020
You with the face!





Seattle, Washington
#3New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 07:38:05
just get out there...

i was a freaking serious shy kid in high school...

wasn't until my step dad stepped in and started doing things like purposely pushing me into a girl, or screaming across a restaurant at a girl i was staring at, screaming "hey, you, yah the blonde one...this kid thinks your hot"

Oh, and if you go to college, your social skills become much improved out of necessity
x_Laura_x On March 13, 2023




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 07:39:35
@aceuvclubs Said



Oh, and if you go to college, your social skills become much improved out of necessity



I kinda found that when I switched colleges last year... I had to make some new friends so I did
aceuvclubs On August 22, 2020
You with the face!





Seattle, Washington
#5New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 07:40:18
I joined a Frat....that helped...my streaking skills were perfected
Hinckleylad On October 08, 2009

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leicester, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 07:40:30
aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh! just keep trying,
l_teddy10 On January 27, 2022




Detroit, Michigan
#7New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 07:50:12
Me too.
Probably because I just piss people off. lol
bellestrange On March 08, 2012
Coo Coo Kachoo





South Australia, Australia
#8New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 08:05:49
@aceuvclubs Said

I joined a Frat....that helped...my streaking skills were perfected

Care to give us a demonstration? hehe






On the topic, it is hard when you feel if you step out and say something, to introduce yourself, that people will judge you, but the reality is they judge you more if you stay quiet because they don't have any facts. Just be yourself, no matter what and quality friends that like you for you will come eventually. The rest are just weeds rolling in the wind anyway.

Spazzy On July 04, 2009

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, Australia
#9New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 08:46:39
You're never going be friends with everyone and you shouldn't feel like you have to be someone other than yourself to make friends. I've found that being myself regardless of how much of a retard or spaz I was/am, the people I've met over the years I've retained as really good friends. I'd rather have a bunch of really close retarded friends than "cool" acquaintances.
bellestrange On March 08, 2012
Coo Coo Kachoo





South Australia, Australia
#10New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 08:59:41
@Spazzy Said

You're never going be friends with everyone and you shouldn't feel like you have to be someone other than yourself to make friends. I've found that being myself regardless of how much of a retard or spaz I was/am, the people I've met over the years I've retained as really good friends. I'd rather have a bunch of really close retarded friends than "cool" acquaintances.



TheSweeney On October 12, 2009

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sweeney land, United Kingdom
#11New Post! Feb 02, 2009 @ 11:25:42
The Sweeney says maybe suicide is the answer ....jk
keep your chin up girl
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