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Jezzy143 On September 28, 2012




, Kentucky
#1New Post! Feb 18, 2012 @ 15:46:22
When I get lovey with my boyfriend, and say sweet things and tell him I'm in the mood for him, he just stays quiet or laughs and says that I'm just "being a girl"

Seriously?!

I don't care how manly you are....why can't guys be sweet and mushy sometimes... =\
offbeat On November 18, 2022




london, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Feb 18, 2012 @ 16:03:01
i'm afraid he is right ....you're just being a girl ...
maximillion On December 13, 2016




, Minnesota
#3New Post! Feb 18, 2012 @ 16:37:40
some guys dont know how lucky they are
ThePainefulTruth On May 06, 2013
Verum est Deus


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Peoria, Arizona
#4New Post! Feb 18, 2012 @ 16:40:12
Sweet, ok maybe, but mushy just isn't in us, and you'd probably be surprised to find you didn't like it in us that much either.
essenceofjme On March 05, 2024
bread ends





f***ing, Morocco
#5New Post! Feb 18, 2012 @ 16:48:13
It might be his way of trying to blow the situation off, maybe he's just not in the mood! better to know before hand!!
freiya On March 20, 2012




, Australia
#6New Post! Feb 18, 2012 @ 17:12:17
@Jezzy143 Said

When I get lovey with my boyfriend, and say sweet things and tell him I'm in the mood for him, he just stays quiet or laughs and says that I'm just "being a girl"

Seriously?!

I don't care how manly you are....why can't guys be sweet and mushy sometimes... =\



hello,

guys can be very sweet and mushy, but it's not normally in the way we expect it - maybe your boyfriend is not used to your affectionate, loving ways and he feels awkward? I really don't know - maybe he was tired!

see ya
xox
hoppy On August 27, 2013




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#7New Post! Feb 18, 2012 @ 19:48:32
Real men NEVER get sweet and mushy. Polite and complimentary is ok.
Cpat92 On May 16, 2021
It's all or nothing





Lauderhill, Florida
#8New Post! Feb 22, 2012 @ 06:18:44
Guys can be sweet. Mushy, most likely not . Some guys don't know what they have though.
Electric_Banana On February 05, 2024




, New Zealand
#9New Post! Feb 22, 2012 @ 06:34:08
@Jezzy143 Said

When I get lovey with my boyfriend, and say sweet things and tell him I'm in the mood for him, he just stays quiet or laughs and says that I'm just "being a girl"

Seriously?!

I don't care how manly you are....why can't guys be sweet and mushy sometimes... =\



A lot of guys are. You're just attracted to the ones that aren't....because they're not as flabby or flatulent.
chef_mia On December 11, 2012




derry, Ireland
#10New Post! Mar 01, 2012 @ 21:46:32
im that used to my boyfriend being cheeky and scarcastic if he says something sweet and mushy i laugh and tell him to shut up lol
boobear On August 15, 2016




London, United Kingdom
#11New Post! Mar 01, 2012 @ 22:24:51
Men can be sweet and mushy it just depends on the type, perhaps yours isn't the mushy type and you both need to compromise on that.
Dark_Tink On December 30, 2018
<3 Boobie <3





, Canada
#12New Post! Mar 01, 2012 @ 22:42:44
There are some guys that are mushy, but I'm guessing the majority are not.

My husband is so far from every being mushy, but I know he loves me in the way he talks about "Us" to others when asked.

He also isn't one to give random affection(hugs and kisses), unless I initiate. Just the way he is.
rosexthorn On July 30, 2022




Winnipeg, Canada
#13New Post! Mar 01, 2012 @ 23:23:13
To be very honest I don't like 'mushy' in my man, nor clingy.
Leon On December 21, 2023




San Diego, California
#14New Post! Mar 02, 2012 @ 00:26:54
@Jezzy143 Said

When I get lovey with my boyfriend, and say sweet things and tell him I'm in the mood for him, he just stays quiet or laughs and says that I'm just "being a girl"

Seriously?!

I don't care how manly you are....why can't guys be sweet and mushy sometimes... =\


Guys can be that way too. He's just not one of them.
Kristy69 On September 14, 2014
Carly's Mommy





Underneath the Cyanide Sun....
#15New Post! Mar 03, 2012 @ 13:48:23
@Jezzy143 Said

When I get lovey with my boyfriend, and say sweet things and tell him I'm in the mood for him, he just stays quiet or laughs and says that I'm just "being a girl"

Seriously?!

I don't care how manly you are....why can't guys be sweet and mushy sometimes... =\



Mine tells me to stop being stupid... then tells me he doesn't "feel the love anymore."
Hmm... maybe being told my romantic gestures are retarded doesn't exactly make me want to be be loving.

I've come to the conclusion that men only really are men into their 30s.... and even then they can be idiots.

Tell him you're expressing how you feel and ask that he sometimes (not all the time) gives you the same attention.
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