Is It Real Love?

If the guy u like is with some other girl n u feel like u wanted 2 kill her is it an obssesion? the fact that they're 2gether makes u wanna die. i dont understand luv.

Well that depends on if you are exaggerating, or if you really actually are thinking of ways to kill this other girl or yourself. Then you have a problem.

sounds like an obsession to me.

I would say doesnt appear healthy, if its true then you need to seek counselling.

Just like to say something, i welcomed you here but please consider your reputation and your name - the sorry thread was a good idea but this thread is a bit off setting and if your looking for sincere friendships here it would be advised to think about what your posting.

Just wondering do you suffer from depression?

ouch

ouch to me or the girl above posts?

Hello bella

Ouch to your assumption above.

as they say, if you truly love someone and you cant be together right now, let it go and if it is meant to be, it will come back around. but what you are talking about, while i hope is metaphoriclly speaking, is still kind of harsh. how would he feel about knowing you wanted to hurt his girlfriend?

Find someone else, unless the feeling is mutual, it's unhealthy to dwell on things like that.

i luv him he luvs me but he luvs her more than me

ahh find someone else your not really in love with him cause if you were u wouldnt have typed the first post on this thread.

theres plenty of guys out there and u will find somebody worhtwhile - if he loves her more than u - your words - then he doesnt love you!

wow i never thought of it dat way

agreed.. there's really no you love someone more than someone else.. that's not love. sadly this does sound like LUST or an obsession. if the guy loves you but someone else too.. then first of all.. he ain't worth it. and second. he has no love or respect for you. you can find plenty of guys out there with their heads screwed on right

make something of yourself, and enjoy life, your young and you have endless possibilities.

this place is great for friendships and for valued opions that may help you through things if u give it a chance and thinking of how u represent yourself with some respects.

Yeah, uh...if you truly love someone you want them to be happy no matter who they're with. I doubt it would make this guy happy to know that you harbor ill intentions toward his woman.

Obsession is closer to the mark if you are contemplating dealing physical harm to the girl he's with.

Be patient and stay cool, you never know if they'll break up and maybe you'll be there for him when he gets over her.