@tickleme Said
Ok, long story short, this guy i know is acting weird and i am not sure if he is giving off signals that he likes me or not..
The other night he started off telling me he was having a bath and i said could i join him and he said things could get steamy and i said i would give him a smack next time i saw him and he said he wasn't into that.
Then he tells me he is going out on a date with some girl that has been set up for him and then texts me to tell me she wasnt what he was expecting and i respond with "does that i mean i have to step in to find you a decent girl?" and he said "maybe" and i said "a wild one, similar to me?" and he said "like you"
Was that comment a hint he is interested or wanting someone like me?
He is building attraction. He is push pulling you. He qualifies then disqualifies you. Now you dont know where you stand.
If he gives you attention, you will appreciate it. He has already demonstrated that he is not just after sex after his steamy bath comments. This demonstrates higher value.
And seeing another girl, he has shown that he has options and is not desperate or needy.
All this does is create attraction.
If you wernt inthe slightest bit attracted, you wouldnt be posting this.
If he came upto you and said he had a crush on you and seemed obsessed with you, you probably wouldnt be interested (dunno for certain). Or if he asked you loads of interview type questions thinking it would get him somewhere when it wouldnt.
At the very least these actions garuntee you are not just planning on placing him in the friend zone.
I only wonder if he knows what he is doing or not.