Im really confused now please help me

i have just sort of taken in i might be gay ive told my best friend he said your still my best mate im glad he didnt freak out. But im only 14 years old will this pass? if so how long will this go on for.

it depends if you really are gay or not. cause if you're not it might just be a phase while your going through puberty it will pass if you're not gay

i really hope it does

Are u phisicaly attracted to the same sex as yours? Or do u think you love that person? It may be just friendship and that you appreciate the body of the others. Try to understand what u feel when you see and like a woman phisicaly and as personality. Do the same thing regarding to a man- than try to compare them.
It may be that your soul is looking for affection - no matter if this comes from the same sex, or the opposite. You may even found out that u like both.
If you are not at all attracted by a woman...and you never been..., and you find their body close to disgusting...yap, it may be that you are and will be. And that`s it- you have to accept it and everyone that cares about you.
Life will show you the way

i dont find womens body disgusting but i never did to men ive only really liked this person but sometimes i have crazy dreams .
ive once liked a girl but it wasent as strong.

Our minds and bodies go through crazy things at pubity, i`m sure many others your age have the same thoughts,just be friends with both and when you are a couple of years older you will know where you are at.

thanks i feel so much better

ut never passed on my lol but you'll find out in your own time..I wouldn't tell too many people because if your not then no-one will believe you if you say your not that happend to a friend of mine

ive only told my best m8 plan to keep it that way and he totally accpeted it

thats good of your mate to accept how you feel at the moment. when i was your age, i seriously thought i preferred girls but that has passed now n i am defo inta lads.

i think it will pass i rlly always new i was gay i just rlly relized it wen i was 14 if it does pass thats great but if it doesnt then just remember there will always be the ones who dont care

you might be a little young but a fool proof test is to obtain some LSD i new a friend an none of us new he was gay im not even sure he did when he took the lsd things would get very intense and scary when no guys were around we started to realize this so we walked away from him and hed follow no matter where we walked hed come with us wewalked in circles and in random places and hed continue to follow we met up with sum girls and he would start sweating and become very un easy we asked him if there was something he had to tell us and he got very nervous and began to tell that we were onto him lsd is a very powerful mindexpanding drug and can catch even the smartest and witty closeted gays

you'll know if you really are. don't be ashamed if you are!

Wow, 8288 is actually my first account on here but I made a new one for some reason. I posted this three years ago!! (Or close to hehe). Oh.. And I'm gay

2006!

Oh and here is proof. I had only just had my 14th birthday. I had no idea I'd been on this forum that long ago.