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crazychica On March 13, 2011
A taste of insanity





Aberdeen, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:02:20
My friend's girlfriend recently broke up with him and he was really upset over it. The problem is that every time he starts to feel good again she calls or texts him to ask if he's ok. It's like ffs! If you want him to feel better again then stop bloody bothering him! Every time he does it he sort of relapses. It's really not fair cos he's a great guy, fun to be around and really friendly. It's just not right to torture someone like that.
golddustwoman On April 03, 2010




, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:10:37
Urgh! i hate girls like that, they dont really want him but they dont want him to like anyone else either, always wanting to remind there ex of them with texts and things.
If you can make him realise that this is what she is doing then maybe you can convince him to change his number or something? his ex sounds like an attention seeker who wants to have her cake and eat it too.
She will end up regretting finishing with him, and if she does she is keeping him there on the back burner just incase.
get him to get rid once and for all.
A pleasant text to her maybe, saying he is fine but he doesn't think its wise to keep in contact anymore, and then change his number.
good luck anyway, he is lucky to have a friend like you looking out for him.
crazychica On March 13, 2011
A taste of insanity





Aberdeen, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:13:50
@golddustwoman Said

Urgh! i hate girls like that, they dont really want him but they dont want him to like anyone else either, always wanting to remind there ex of them with texts and things.
If you can make him realise that this is what she is doing then maybe you can convince him to change his number or something? his ex sounds like an attention seeker who wants to have her cake and eat it too.
She will end up regretting finishing with him, and if she does she is keeping him there on the back burner just incase.
get him to get rid once and for all.
A pleasant text to her maybe, saying he is fine but he doesn't think its wise to keep in contact anymore, and then change his number.
good luck anyway, he is lucky to have a friend like you looking out for him.



The problem is that I never actually met his ex since we run in slightly different circles. If they'd still been together on my birthday then we would have met then. I'm just to mad at her because it's so unfair on him.
golddustwoman On April 03, 2010




, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:19:35
yeh, believe me, i know exactly the kind of girl you are talkin about. far to many of them about, and most the time guys dont seem to see it.
just look after him best you can. and if worst comes to worst we can track her down and have words haha
crazychica On March 13, 2011
A taste of insanity





Aberdeen, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:22:00
@golddustwoman Said

yeh, believe me, i know exactly the kind of girl you are talkin about. far to many of them about, and most the time guys dont seem to see it.
just look after him best you can. and if worst comes to worst we can track her down and have words haha



doodmanreturns On October 20, 2012




, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:31:18
can he not change his number or put a block on his call, or report her for abusive and threatening calls and get the cops stop her
crazychica On March 13, 2011
A taste of insanity





Aberdeen, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:35:33
@doodmanreturns Said

can he not change his number or put a block on his call, or report her for abusive and threatening calls and get the cops stop her



He wouldn't. He still really cares about it. And it's not like she's being abusive or anything. She's just calling "to see how he's doing."...b****
sister_of_mercy On March 11, 2015




London, United Kingdom
#8New Post! Feb 04, 2010 @ 20:39:05
@crazychica Said

My friend's girlfriend recently broke up with him and he was really upset over it. The problem is that every time he starts to feel good again she calls or texts him to ask if he's ok. It's like ffs! If you want him to feel better again then stop bloody bothering him! Every time he does it he sort of relapses. It's really not fair cos he's a great guy, fun to be around and really friendly. It's just not right to torture someone like that.



I know a guy who does that, though it could just be down to unfortunate timing in his case. Either way it's annoying, emotional manipulation is just horrible, unnecessary to put someone through that after being with them.
shadowen On March 22, 2024




Bunyip Bend, Australia
#9New Post! Feb 06, 2010 @ 08:27:36
some girls after they break-up with their bf just like to really sink the boot in and enjoy making their ex hurt and suffer...you really have to wonder about the mentality of such woman. Indeed i wonder about the mentality of anyone who knowingly seeks to cause another person pain, sadness etc etc etc

and for some girls they just love being able to control and manipulate the emotions of their ex.
GiantSpiderGoat On February 14, 2015
Volunteer Pornstar





In Your Mind's Eye, Antarctica
#10New Post! Feb 06, 2010 @ 08:33:38
Most girls are cut if they brake up with me or I brake up with them. Its because I won't show emotion at that time and makes it seem like I don't care.
townie_guy On May 07, 2013

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, United Kingdom
#11New Post! Apr 05, 2010 @ 17:41:28
Why did they break up if you dont mind? Because she obviously still cares for him. Maybe you should get her number off your friend and have a chat with her. But then you risk betraying your friend.
crazychica On March 13, 2011
A taste of insanity





Aberdeen, United Kingdom
#12New Post! Apr 05, 2010 @ 19:06:13
@townie_guy Said

Why did they break up if you dont mind? Because she obviously still cares for him. Maybe you should get her number off your friend and have a chat with her. But then you risk betraying your friend.



I don't know why they broke up. At the time I posted this all I knew was that she was making it harder for him.
ammw20 On March 05, 2022




Walla Walla, Washington
#13New Post! Apr 05, 2010 @ 19:14:14
thats really sucks i know how he feels my ex is playing with my heart too. mines a little harder i cant just up and change my number am having his kid
jmo On April 29, 2021
Beruset af Julebryg





Yorkshire, United Kingdom
#14New Post! Apr 05, 2010 @ 19:15:43
Girls do that, loads of girls do that. It's s***, no idea why they do. Evil.

Yeah I'm slightly bitter.
crazychica On March 13, 2011
A taste of insanity





Aberdeen, United Kingdom
#15New Post! Apr 05, 2010 @ 19:20:44
@ammw20 Said

thats really sucks i know how he feels my ex is playing with my heart too. mines a little harder i cant just up and change my number am having his kid


So you pretty much have to keep him in your life. Sorry about that part. But congrats on the pregnancy.

@jmo Said

Girls do that, loads of girls do that. It's s***, no idea why they do. Evil.

Yeah I'm slightly bitter.



Not all girls do that. I just don't get it. She probably wouldn't want him doing that to her if it was the other way around so why?
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