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xoxoLolaxoxo On February 25, 2010




Chicago, Illinois
#1New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 01:05:47
1. I have issues with staying with he same guy for more than a couple days. I have no clue why.

2. I always think I find great guys, but they always end up being porn & drug addicts, pedafiles, rapists, ect. How do you find a good guy?

3. The fact that I can't stay with a guy very long has earned me a reputation as a whore, but my question is since when did whore's wear purity rings? What is ur opinion on the whole "whore" reputation?
not4sale On May 28, 2010

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Melbourne, Australia
#2New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 01:09:30
@xoxoLolaxoxo Said

1. I have issues with staying with he same guy for more than a couple days. I have no clue why.

2. I always think I find great guys, but they always end up being porn & drug addicts, pedafiles, rapists, ect. How do you find a good guy?

3. The fact that I can't stay with a guy very long has earned me a reputation as a whore, but my question is since when did whore's wear purity rings? What is ur opinion on the whole "whore" reputation?



1. What exactly is your question? Or were you just telling us that you can't maintain a stable relationship?

2. Not really sure why you're asking guys how to find good guys, but okay, I'll bite.
I'd advise you to stay the hell away from whatever area you're finding your current boyfriends given the numerical preponderance of rapists/paedophiles/drug addicts etc.

3. I don't care about the whore reputation. Whores can wear a purity ring. There's no reason they shouldn't be able to.
RobbyF On November 11, 2016




Silver Spring, Maryland
#3New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 01:11:08
people get called whores for all different reasons. Sounds like the only "issue" is ur 15! You'll get there! Take ur time!
JbUnited On January 07, 2009




Tamworth, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 01:19:51
A whore is obviously a woman that gets paid to have sex, but i think people call women whores is just to get to them because they hate it, and people call women whores if they sleep around alot...

Maybe your not ready for a relationship yet if you keep moving on after a couple of days, or maybe you should get to know the guy better before getting together with him...
Stigma On February 13, 2010
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#5New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 01:22:58
@xoxoLolaxoxo Said

1. I have issues with staying with he same guy for more than a couple days. I have no clue why.

2. I always think I find great guys, but they always end up being porn & drug addicts, pedafiles, rapists, ect. How do you find a good guy?

3. The fact that I can't stay with a guy very long has earned me a reputation as a whore, but my question is since when did whore's wear purity rings? What is ur opinion on the whole "whore" reputation?


I'm not a guy, but I'm going to answer anyways.

You're young, all the boys your dating, sound much older.
Assumig this guess is correct, I'd say: I think that's the core issue. Do you think that the men you date take you seriously at your age? If they do, there is probably something wrong with them. Hence the pedos and rapists. Even if they are 15 year old boys, they are young, they have other things on there mind, then settling down.

Also, boys look at porn, it's natural. Some do it, some don't, doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them, if they do.

People will think of you as a whore, if you are jumping from man to man, when you are 15, and they are all adults.

You are young, take you time, take it easy.
Allyson On January 20, 2010

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, Michigan
#6New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 01:26:36
Your 15, what are you trying to say
chisa96 On December 29, 2014
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Out in Nature, Wisconsin
#7New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 02:15:32
@xoxoLolaxoxo Said

1. I have issues with staying with he same guy for more than a couple days. I have no clue why.

2. I always think I find great guys, but they always end up being porn & drug addicts, pedafiles, rapists, ect. How do you find a good guy?

3. The fact that I can't stay with a guy very long has earned me a reputation as a whore, but my question is since when did whore's wear purity rings? What is ur opinion on the whole "whore" reputation?



another girls answer... but maybe it would help... just be single for a while... dont go with any guys, just go out and do things by yourself... might gain some perspective...
crankshaft On May 10, 2009

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#8New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 02:28:41
All you need is a good butt whippin and sent to bed without your supper.
boobagins On August 03, 2013
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Astral Weeks, Florida
#9New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 04:12:24
@xoxoLolaxoxo Said

1. I have issues with staying with he same guy for more than a couple days. I have no clue why.

2. I always think I find great guys, but they always end up being porn & drug addicts, pedafiles, rapists, ect. How do you find a good guy?

3. The fact that I can't stay with a guy very long has earned me a reputation as a whore, but my question is since when did whore's wear purity rings? What is ur opinion on the whole "whore" reputation?


you're fifteen...how do you end up being with pedafiles and rapists...??? Either you're trying to be older by going out with guys that are wayyyyyyy to old for you or....nope thats it.
royalmile700 On September 02, 2010




BALTIMORE, Maryland
#10New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 04:21:32
15, living in a big city, and meeting these kind of guys. Well one, your parents need to pull the reigns in on you. s*** if I had a daughter and she brought one of these people home I'd kill them and then you'd be lucky to see daylight again until you were 18. Second, if your dating anyone remotely your age they couldn't be a pedafile and the fact that they were with you would make them one in the first place so what do you expect. Lastly, the whore title you have been given is because if I saw a 15 yo girl with a 20+ year old guy I wouldnt expect kissing to be the furthest you've gone. Are you kidding me, sit at home for the next i dunno 3 years and think about what kind of life your leading because this may be the least of your worries if you continue this lifestyle.
xoxoLolaxoxo On February 25, 2010




Chicago, Illinois
#11New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 05:55:06
I just realized how i wasn't very specific. the whole pedafile deal was that i was dating a guy who was lying to me about his age. i thought that he was 16 cuz thats what he told me but he ended up being 22. the rapist, well he was actually only 16 which really scares me so i havent knowingly gone out with someone THAT much older. the reason things havent gone too far was the fact that i dont keep guys very long. the wierd part of it was, is that everytime there's an issue, it shocks everyone. Even my parents who had met them were shocked. The were a bit skeptical about how old the pedofile actually was and when i found out, we had him arrested. Alot of what you guys have said is REALLY making me second guess dating. Im starting to see that I'm a bit young. I recently transferred from 11 years in private school to a public high school and im sorta starting to see how naive i am and how many times i was so easily decieved. i have a long life ahead of me and maybe a boy isn't what i need right now. you guys really helped me see that. for a while I started thinking that I would never find love, but now I'm thinking that I'm too young for love. I think that what I need to do is focus on my music career and put some of those songs I wrote about these experiences to good use. You were all very insightful and told me things that I feel that I really needed to hear. Believe me, this wasnt a five-minute thing. I've been re-reading these posts and trying to figure out what to do with my life. I want to turn things around and become an independant person. Im starting to think that I don't need a guy to complete me and maybe I just need to enjoy myself as a respectful, well-mannered, and completely single young woman. That's who I want to be and I'm going to do everything within my power to get there. Thank you so much for all of your help and if more people post, I'll keep reading because you can never have too much help. Even if i slip up, im going to keep this page in my favorites so i can come back to this and restart.
Hinckleylad On October 08, 2009

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leicester, United Kingdom
#12New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 09:28:15
. I have issues with staying with he same guy for more than a couple days. I have no clue why.

2. I always think I find great guys, but they always end up being porn & drug addicts, pedafiles, rapists, ect. How do you find a good guy?
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where do you pick up these guys? outside the local jail house
Hinckleylad On October 08, 2009

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leicester, United Kingdom
#13New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 09:38:39
seriosly, my advice is to change your friends and your social circle, you need to change becuase if not you will become a serious victim yourself mixing with these types of fellas.

why the rush for a relationship anyway, your young, have your whole life ahead of you, do not destroy it before you really start living it, forget about loving others, love yourself first, respect yourself and most of all take care of yourself, your parents should be there to guide you through these early years of womanhood, have you other family members who could help you through this phase in your life?
treebee On April 13, 2015
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London, United Kingdom
#14New Post! Jan 02, 2009 @ 10:06:57
you are the same age as my daughter and i say to you what i would say to her if she was in your shoes:-

you are worth more than that!

Whatever the problem is, whatever you think about yourself you do not deserve that kind of trouble.

Learn to love yourself before ever thinking about loving someone else. See your potential, nurture yourself, challenge yourself and become the person you always wanted to be.

When you are that person, then consider a relationship.

Until you have set yourself higher standards in life then consider dating a no go area.

People are capable of having wonderful loving relationships but you have to start on the right foot.
bobthebuilder On March 03, 2010




breezy point, Minnesota
#15New Post! Jan 07, 2009 @ 21:17:01
in my book 15 is too young to have a serious relationship. nothing wrong with dating and such but if you want a good guy make sure they hang around a good crowd. if their friends are trashy scum, chances are so are they. dont go for people that get in trouble with the law, dont pick up people are bars or clubs unless you already know them. stick with someone around your age like 14-17 until you get older. the world is not a nice place all the time. there are a lot of bad people out there and a lot of people looking for a relationship just want a 1 night stand or use you for a place to stay or money. dont trust anyone until you get to know them. i know it sounds kinda mean but dont be as accepting to humanity. too many know how to take advantage and only care about themselves. also i personally think online dating sites are not always, but a lot of times a bad idea. you're still very young, in time i'm sure you will start finding better people. best of luck to you!
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