I like my best friend and i'm bi

mpls, Minnesota

Sep 02, 2011 @ 04:13:52

Ok do I like my best friend who is a girl and I am a girl to. She is beautiful. We have been friend for about 9 months. The other day I told her i'm bi and she has acting weird around me because of that. She said that's cool. I told her I like her but she didn't say anything and nothing changed. But she always when were sitting in class she moves around in her seat so her knee touches mine. She already messes with me like that. I want to know if she's bi or not but I don't know how. I can't just ask her because like then it's gonna be real awkward between us and I don't want that. But how?

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alk1975

Jackson, Missouri

#2

Sep 02, 2011 @ 04:21:35

@donthurtmeanymoreplease Said

Ok do I like my best friend who is a girl and I am a girl to. She is beautiful. We have been friend for about 9 months. The other day I told her i'm bi and she has acting weird around me because of that. She said that's cool. I told her I like her but she didn't say anything and nothing changed. But she always when were sitting in class she moves around in her seat so her knee touches mine. She already messes with me like that. I want to know if she's bi or not but I don't know how. I can't just ask her because like then it's gonna be real awkward between us and I don't want that. But how?

give her time to process what you have said. She is uncomfortable with homosexuality or bisexuality at all at this point and if she is feeling any attraction to you, she will likely deny it at this point and feel ashamed of feeling that way. Let her get more comfortable with your confession first. As that gets more comfortable for her then she will be more obvious about her own position in this matter.

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donthurtmeanymoreplease

mpls, Minnesota

#3

Sep 02, 2011 @ 04:24:21

@alk1975 Said

give her time to process what you have said. She is uncomfortable with homosexuality or bisexuality at all at this point and if she is feeling any attraction to you, she will likely deny it at this point and feel ashamed of feeling that way. Let her get more comfortable with your confession first. As that gets more comfortable for her then she will be more obvious about her own position in this matter.

Thank you

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Willi

northinmind,

#4

Sep 02, 2011 @ 04:31:35

both 14 years old?

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CXI

, Australia

#5

Sep 02, 2011 @ 04:57:32

14!? is there no age limit on here?..... cause there should be. Whether this is about 2 bi 14 year olds or 14 year old straight ones I refuse to comment on some pre-teens "love"life when it should be non existent.

Well... I commented though. Sorry, I may as well give advice..

Don't bother! Don't bother with anything till your at least 16.

And why the hell is every 14 year old bi or gay? Are you guys "scene" kids? Cause that seems to be the trend.

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CXI

, Australia

#6

Sep 02, 2011 @ 04:58:16

Don't get into a relationship with anything!
Boy, girl, animal, object!

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Zhed

Kaviang, Papua New Guinea

#7

Sep 02, 2011 @ 05:04:17

@donthurtmeanymoreplease Said

Ok do I like my best friend who is a girl and I am a girl to. She is beautiful. We have been friend for about 9 months. The other day I told her i'm bi and she has acting weird around me because of that. She said that's cool. I told her I like her but she didn't say anything and nothing changed. But she always when were sitting in class she moves around in her seat so her knee touches mine. She already messes with me like that. I want to know if she's bi or not but I don't know how. I can't just ask her because like then it's gonna be real awkward between us and I don't want that. But how?

Roofies will help.

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alk1975

Jackson, Missouri

#8

Sep 02, 2011 @ 11:47:39

@Zhed Said

Roofies will help.

I really don't recommend making such a suggestion to a minor. Especially in a public place in print. Not brilliant on your part.

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BozieFozie

Life's a Beach

Paradise, Florida

#9

Sep 02, 2011 @ 11:51:16

@CXI Said

14!? is there no age limit on here?..... cause there should be. Whether this is about 2 bi 14 year olds or 14 year old straight ones I refuse to comment on some pre-teens "love"life when it should be non existent.

Well... I commented though. Sorry, I may as well give advice..

Don't bother! Don't bother with anything till your at least 16.

And why the hell is every 14 year old bi or gay? Are you guys "scene" kids? Cause that seems to be the trend.

I'm pretty sure 13 is the age limit for here, but I could be wrong.

On topic for the OP, she is flirting with you. At 14, kids flirt, be it boy to girl, girl to boy, girl to girl or boy to boy! You have a LONG TIME yet to grow into your own preferences, sweetie, don't rush it!!!

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BozieFozie

Life's a Beach

Paradise, Florida

#10

Sep 02, 2011 @ 11:52:10

@Zhed Said

Roofies will help.

DEFINITELY NOT COOL!!!!!

(And I don't even know what "roofies" are!

)

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woodss

,

#11

Sep 02, 2011 @ 11:52:39

I wouldnt suggest any sexual activity of anyone under 18.
Seems something is developing here.

I think these girls minds are corrupt.

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Edited: September 02, 2011 @ 11:53

BozieFozie

Life's a Beach

Paradise, Florida

#12

Sep 02, 2011 @ 11:54:42

People............PLEASE. We are dealing with a 14 y.o. girl here..........

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woodss

,

#13

Sep 02, 2011 @ 12:16:00

@BozieFozie Said

People............PLEASE. We are dealing with a 14 y.o. girl here..........

Yes I agree and she shouldn't be even thinking this way.

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woodss

,

#14

Sep 02, 2011 @ 12:16:56

@CXI Said

14!? is there no age limit on here?..... cause there should be. Whether this is about 2 bi 14 year olds or 14 year old straight ones I refuse to comment on some pre-teens "love"life when it should be non existent.

Well... I commented though. Sorry, I may as well give advice..

Don't bother! Don't bother with anything till your at least 16.

And why the hell is every 14 year old bi or gay? Are you guys "scene" kids? Cause that seems to be the trend.

Agreed.

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CXI

, Australia

#15

Sep 02, 2011 @ 13:43:51

@BozieFozie Said

People............PLEASE. We are dealing with a 14 y.o. girl here..........

We're assuming

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Edited: September 02, 2011 @ 13:44

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