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I just lost some friends & I don't know why?

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lisajones On December 31, 2009




Woodbridge, Virginia
#1New Post! May 27, 2009 @ 23:20:54
Someone made up a rumor about me & so-called friends believed it. Clearly, I give people too much credit.
xnuvax On April 06, 2010

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SYDNEY, Australia
#2New Post! May 27, 2009 @ 23:29:29
This has happened to me recently too. I've lost a few good friends. We didn't have a fight or anything. Just suddenly, they're not my friends anymore. I know a few rumours have been going around, as usual, so I'm thinking the same thing. Perhaps they believed the rumour without even discussing it with me. It's such a shame.
unicorn On March 18, 2010

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The Oaks, Australia
#3New Post! May 27, 2009 @ 23:29:45
There's always the old adage to sort of give you comfort.If these so-called friends could'nt be bothered coming to you to discuss this issue before making a judgement, then they were'nt real friends to begin with.

You should see how many you lose through a divorce!
lisajones On December 31, 2009




Woodbridge, Virginia
#4New Post! May 27, 2009 @ 23:32:54
They just discussed the rumor, embellished it - & somehow forgot to getting around to asking me if any of it was true.

It's very frustrating, but I've decided it's best this way. Friends like that I don't need.
skittleyan On March 06, 2010




, Hong Kong
#5New Post! May 27, 2009 @ 23:33:46
sound like they were not really friends if they believe rumors over you.
magnifiSHIT On September 14, 2009

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Slaughter Avenue,
#6New Post! May 27, 2009 @ 23:35:16
They arent real friends then.

Loosing friends, it happens... loose some, gain some.

I lost 6 people in the past 2 years. Made some new cool friends like nuva, stigma, deceiving eyes and kristy
lilbear On January 18, 2010
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, Canada
#7New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 00:01:58
@xnuvax Said

This has happened to me recently too. I've lost a few good friends. We didn't have a fight or anything. Just suddenly, they're not my friends anymore. I know a few rumours have been going around, as usual, so I'm thinking the same thing. Perhaps they believed the rumour without even discussing it with me. It's such a shame.



You deleted me and I don't know why yet.
lilbear On January 18, 2010
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, Canada
#8New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 00:04:39
@lisajones Said

Someone made up a rumor about me & so-called friends believed it. Clearly, I give people too much credit.



Don't sweat it! Rumors are the Hors D'oeuvres of the day. One minute they're there and the next they're not.

Sorry you're hurt by this and hope it all gets resolved.
xnuvax On April 06, 2010

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SYDNEY, Australia
#9New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 00:08:38
@lilbear Said

You deleted me and I don't know why yet.



I have never deleted anyone on my friends list except for one male person who I believe is a cyber phony. I thought you deleted me.

Anyhow, I was talking about real life friends not internet friends. I've lost a few close buddies in real life, they go to the same uni as me. Our group has separated into two.
lilbear On January 18, 2010
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, Canada
#10New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 00:10:27
Getting old! I thought it was about the forum.
KaleNeedsCoffee On February 15, 2016
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, Canada
#11New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 00:22:01
Everything appears to be a high school drama... I've seen it happen so often lately! I don't get it at all.
Like I've lost contact with friends, when you grow apart or don't have things in common anymore, but to just quit the friendship over rumours and lies is ridiculous, I think its better they aren't in your lives.


@lilbear Said

You deleted me and I don't know why yet.



@xnuvax Said

I thought you deleted me.


Will you be friends once more? Maybe TFS is throwing you a couple of curve balls, testing your friendship...lol
Has this thread brought you back together...
Sorry but i got a laugh out of that bit
Mysteria On May 19, 2014
I Am Rogue!





A Small Town, Texas
#12New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 00:32:28
I had an Internet AND offline "friend" for years. We met in 2003 on a message board. We talked on the phone here and there. One time, she wanted to end her life and I helped her through it. She helped me through some bad times. I was invited for a visit, but I was never able to. She sent me a new address book in December that I wouldn't have been able to find in my town. Sometimes we didn't talk for 3 months and that never bothered me. She was the first person to say, "Your family's f***ed up!" when I told her about some issues I had with them. I'm straight and she told me that most of her friends were bisexual women. We laughed. I tried to add her to MySpace at the beginning of April and she wrote back to say that she didn't think we could be friends anymore. She accused ME of being mean to my family and said we're too different. I wrote back and then copied the message into an email in which I said some other things. I did not curse at her. Then, I called and left a message on her machine because I thought I deserved more of an explanation than I got. I wished her well. I waited nearly two months. When I called her, she hung up on me.

Lisa, I'm sorry for what's happened to you. I didn't mean to hijack your thread. I wanted you to know that if they don't come to you and give you an explanation for what's going on, they aren't worth worrying over. You deserve better. It's painful, but you'll keep your true friends. I have.

Michi On November 29, 2009




Las Vegas, Nevada
#13New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 13:36:54
IF they were really your friends they would know better. If a friend heard something negative they would of called you to ask if it was true or what happened.
Lillyanna On August 22, 2010

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Somewhere, United Kingdom
#14New Post! May 28, 2009 @ 15:33:43
@unicorn Said

There's always the old adage to sort of give you comfort.If these so-called friends could'nt be bothered coming to you to discuss this issue before making a judgement, then they were'nt real friends to begin with.

You should see how many you lose through a divorce!


Mmmmmm indeed arn't humans so shallow

Mysteria On May 19, 2014
I Am Rogue!





A Small Town, Texas
#15New Post! May 30, 2009 @ 07:13:50
Are you alright, Lisa?
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