I dumped this guy and i love him so much and he says he lvoes me 2 but he fancies

i broke up with my bf after 5 months because we liv a few hours away and we onli see each other every so often.....i reli love this guy and i think bout him most of the day and sumtimes we spend hours tlakin bout how we lvoe each other and weregoin 2 see each other in the summer holidays.......but he told me that he does fancy another girl who lvies around him.....he then said if iwas seriously going to ask him back out he wud say yes.....ive cried so many times over him and i duno wether 2 leave it and b like ebst friends and see each other in the summer or 2 get bak with him ??/ im reli stuk

my mind....

1st love is always painful, If he says he would have you back and you love him I dont see what the problem is, you dont get to see him so much as he lives so far away, but if you are now crying over him then you should be back with him, BUT does he love you as much as you love him , hmmmm NO because if he did then he would not fancy another girl or lady so find someone new that lives near you

yeah...I've had a relationship EXACTLY the same. I ended up letting go in the end...we hardly ever saw eachother and it was just not working because of that fact...so yeah...find someone who lives nearer to you...
at first...you won't want to let go of him...and it will take a long time for the love to fade...but it'll be for the best.

Take it as more time to study in school.

lol yes ive noticed im odin rlei bad in skool recently so il hav 2 push that up

i dont believe in going back at all. i know its hard to let go im doing it now, 3 years with him and its over but, i think if it didnt happen the first time for whatever reason its really not going to work the second or third time either! i understand how difficult it is, you miss them so much you would do anything to be with them again, but really in the long run you will get hurt again. plus you are only young, there are so many more out there hunny! i know we all say it but, only time can help you! hugs help too tho

hmmm i think thats gota b it then but wot happens i nthe summer were at the same place same time and hes on bout makin it the msot romantic place eva?

Wake up girl
the guy is keeping his options open
Trust me
im always right

Don't put yourself throught a relationship like this. If he fancies other girls, then you don't need to be around. Additionally, you don't need to know about it either.

Staying around is setting yourself up for more tears. Maybe you guys could be friends, but not know. You have too many emotions going on at this time and the only one that is getting hurt is you.

Sweety, don't cry anymore. Stand up for what you believe and know that this guy will not be the last jerk you will find. Believe me, there are plenty of them out there, you just need to get strong and make sure you won't settle for second best.

He will always fancy other girls...he is young. Don't expect him to love you forever. This is the time where laughter needs to be in your heart and not pain or tears. Make new friends and be wild and free and more importantly laught. Get rid of those that hurt your heart...you will find someone that won't do that to you.

Take care
Rare