I LOVE HER BUT SHE LOVES ALCHOHAL

IM IRRITATED RIGHT NOW IM YOUNG AND SO IS SHE THE ONLY THING THATS IN BETWEEN US IS ALCOHAL I HATE HATE HATE HATE IT!!! everytime i say you should stoppppppp "OH NO ITS NOT A BIG DEAL......." WTF IS THAT BS...
I FREAKING LOVE HER TO DEATH BUT I need her to stopp........ Cant tell why BUT yeahhhhhhhhh, help? how to i make her stoppp 3 years is not going to stop too easily..

Sounds like you need to stage an intervention and get her into rehab, if she's as bad as you make make it sound.

How much does she drink?

underage drinking is BAD =P ANd consistly lying to parents sayings its a sleep over is worst!!.....

shee is petite she gets drunk off prolly 1 shot...

She needs to accept for herself that she has a problem, there is nothing you can really do. "You can lead a horse to water but can't make it drink"

Believe me when I say I have been there, I am getting divorced and the route of everything that went wrong was alcohol. Only now when he realises what he's lost has he accepted he has a problem.

My advice is to give her an ultimatum but really mean it of it's me or the alcohol.

Good luck hun, come pm me if you need support

ROFL!

This is a common problem, but most the times it is the man with the problem. Just explain to her that it's the alcohol, or you. Don't make it sound like an ultimatum, just explain to her that it is becoming a problem, and coming between the two of you. Explain to her that you don't like it, and don't agree with it. Give her reasons though, just telling her to stop because you don't like it will most likely get you a laugh and her telling you just to leave then.

Just tell her parents, unless you want them to find out in the emergency room when shes having her stomach pumped.

I gotta admit drunk children are annoying as hell. Its not thier fault. They are using a brand new drug and have no idea whats happening to them. And they havent learned yet that thier sudden burst of confidence followed by sudden feelings of depression are all part and parcel of the drug. They also havent learned that a drunk is only funny if everyone around them is drunk. Otherwise they are a total pain in the arse.

If you are a good friend tell her parents. Its for them to manage thier daughter.