It's hard to make friends if you stay at home alone all the time. Get out of the house and do things that will put you in touch with other people. FOr example, join a club or play a sport, attend meetings or other groups. It's easier to make friends when you have similar interests.
Learn from people who seem to have lots of friends and watch carefully how they make and keep friends. Don't copy all the things they do, but try to notice what they do. Then try some of those things yourself.
Don't be afraid to show people what you're really good at. Talk about the things you like and do best. Dont hide youir strong points. People will be interested in you if there is something interesting about you.
Plan things to talk about with people. Find out what's in the newspaper headlines, listen to CDs, and learn about what's new with your favourite TV or movie star. The more you have to say, the more people will be interested in having a conversation with you.
Look people in the eye when you talk to them. That way, they'll find it easier to talk to you. it's very difficult to have a converstaion with people whose eyes are looking to the left, to the right, or at the floor. People may think you're not interested in them and may stop being interested in you.
Be a good listener. Let people talk about themselves before talking about "me, me, me". Ask lots of questions and show an interest in their answers.
Dec 12, 2007 @ 07:25:55
She's always on msn . . . and she's annoying me so much I've blocked her. It takes a lot for me to block anyone on msn.
I'm so gullible it's embarrassing
