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keanu432 On August 13, 2010




Chelan, Washington
#1New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 06:08:43
Me and my girlfriend are falling a boring routine and it is causing some strain. It seems all we do on phone calls is say I love you. How can I spice things up?
eternus_somnium On April 14, 2021
clinically crackers





, United States (general)
#2New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 06:12:59
Just because I want to be the first person to say it... phone sex.
breadeater On December 25, 2015




Dread Land,
#3New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 06:13:41
Get a webcam... lets your hands guide you...
keanu432 On August 13, 2010




Chelan, Washington
#4New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 06:15:31
We already do that, but how can I make things interesting again?
Lili On July 12, 2019
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Sunshine Land,
#5New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 06:35:16
What interests you? Talk about that. Talk about stuff that interests her. Talk about your plans for the day, or for the weekend or for the future. Find interesting stuff online like in the news or on Digg and talk about that. Get into a philosophical debate, politics, religion, morality, society, gossip, whatever, lol. Try to find out what it's like to be her, why she likes certain things, why she does things a certain way, you'll learn a lot about her and it creates a sense of intimacy.
ItsCourtneyX On February 19, 2011

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Assville, Ohio
#6New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 06:37:27
Well if you guys text a lot during the day or talk by other means before you get on the phone, you should stop, that way when you get on the phone you have more to talk about such as what you did that day, what your plans are for later on, stuff like that.
keanu432 On August 13, 2010




Chelan, Washington
#7New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 17:18:39
Thank you Lili and itsCOurtneyX, very useful information. I appreciate it so much and will put it to use.
plebian_angel On April 25, 2012
Intergalactic hussy





a great future,
#8New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 17:21:08
What else do you do besides talk on the phone? Do you IM together? Have internet dates? What?
keanu432 On August 13, 2010




Chelan, Washington
#9New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 17:24:04
I've nerver heard of an internet date. But we normally just talk on the phone about our day and how much we love each other. We IM and also chat.
plebian_angel On April 25, 2012
Intergalactic hussy





a great future,
#10New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 17:25:46
@keanu432 Said

I've nerver heard of an internet date. But we normally just talk on the phone about our day and how much we love each other. We IM and also chat.



Ok well my man and I are 19 months into a LDR and we never have that problem. We have an internet date every saturday where we IM and shutout the rest of the world. We'll play games on pogo or watch movies or TV shows (both on our respective PCs) and IM thought them talking about them or whatever else comes up. Spend the whole day doing that.
Dark_Tink On December 30, 2018
<3 Boobie <3





, Canada
#11New Post! Aug 10, 2010 @ 17:26:01
Since almost everyone uses the internet from talking to sending things, how about you send her a card in the mail, or even a letter? Make it a bit more personal between you to.

It can easily brighten someones day when they get a card in the mail 'just because' from someone they love.

Putting forth that extra effort can mean so much!
TaraLovesLiam On March 02, 2014




Portlaoise, Ireland
#12New Post! Aug 11, 2010 @ 03:01:16
send her kinky crap or something
sweetheart5545 On November 06, 2013




, Florida
#13New Post! Aug 11, 2010 @ 03:04:58
just talk about stuff that interests you both
Mikeyyyy On September 13, 2010




, New Jersey
#14New Post! Aug 11, 2010 @ 03:07:40
@keanu432 Said

Me and my girlfriend are falling a boring routine and it is causing some strain. It seems all we do on phone calls is say I love you. How can I spice things up?


im also in a long distance relationship. i been in one for a while.
i would tell you to get a webcam(its easier to communicate with each other). the way me and my girlfriend talk is through skype.its very good for 1 on 1 conversations. and also when your on the phone with her, find topics to talk about. you dont need phone sex or anything to show your girlfriend you love her. let your feelings out, girls like that.Oh and also, try not to be silent on the phone..it shows the girl that its getting boring to talk to you on the phone.
Goddess18 On December 24, 2010




Cebu, Philippines
#15New Post! Aug 11, 2010 @ 20:10:30
I am in a long distance relationship for 2 years and the relationship i have with my love is just terrific..
What my boyfriend always does is to talk about how's my day.. and he misses me a lot.. and even though he will ask me again over and over again.. i don't feel tired at all.. We keep on teasing each other.. We laugh on little things ..
He is someone who express himself passionately and love me unconditionally. i never thought that it will last however we have reach 2 years and it is already an achievement.. He is very sweet and charming.. It's like talking with him over and over again is like a celebration..
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