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man_in_kilt On December 05, 2006

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trapped in my mind, Tennessee
#16New Post! Jun 25, 2006 @ 02:23:35
As it's already been said expect some sort of reaction.It will happen.I got a strange reaction from one friend when I told him I was bi.he asked if I thought he was hot.Strange but true.Good luck with it.
deadguy On December 08, 2009




Bucuresti, Romania
#17New Post! Jun 25, 2006 @ 06:50:27
step by step instructions :

1. go out with him for a drink...
2. multiply that drink with 5
3. each one of you goes home
4. wait until 2:30 am
5. call him
6. say this "dude, i just found out something : i am gay"
7. then say this "this means i will give you my entire porn collection"
8. then say this "oh, did i wake you up ?"
9. then say "ok...i'll let you sleep"
10. hang up
11. sleep
12. wait until the next day
13. give him porn
15. go on with your life
16. never adopt a teenager
17. name your first baby after me
frozen On December 15, 2009




Manchester, United Kingdom
#18New Post! Jun 25, 2006 @ 10:06:54
That sounds like a plan right there Deadguy!!
treebee On April 13, 2015
Government Hooker

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London, United Kingdom
#19New Post! Jun 25, 2006 @ 11:02:12
I have a story about this:

One night i was woken up by my at the time b/f he was panicked and covered in blood. I got up out of bed and his best friend was sitting downstairs. He came to me and said "Tree, i have been for a drink with X and he told me he is gay"

So i said, so f***in what, why you covered in blood?

So apparently they had a massive fight. My b/f thought his friend was just f***in with him. Then they decided to have another fight on my stairs. Anyways, they sorted it out as soon as they were sober.

Moral is, dont do it drunk, you wont be taken seriously.
jmo On April 29, 2021
Beruset af Julebryg





Yorkshire, United Kingdom
#20New Post! Jun 25, 2006 @ 11:06:50
@deadguy Said
step by step instructions :

1. go out with him for a drink...
2. multiply that drink with 5
3. each one of you goes home
4. wait until 2:30 am
5. call him
6. say this "dude, i just found out something : i am gay"
7. then say this "this means i will give you my entire porn collection"
8. then say this "oh, did i wake you up ?"
9. then say "ok...i'll let you sleep"
10. hang up
11. sleep
12. wait until the next day
13. give him porn
15. go on with your life
16. never adopt a teenager
17. name your first baby after me


why not adopt a teenager? it means you get straight to the good part and dont have to do any of the nappy changing stuff.
macleary On June 30, 2006




, Ireland
#21New Post! Jun 30, 2006 @ 19:09:25
ha ha ur gay
treebee On April 13, 2015
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London, United Kingdom
#22New Post! Jun 30, 2006 @ 19:29:30
@macleary Said
ha ha ur gay


who me?
psycoskunk On December 24, 2020
Funky-Footed Skunk





A fort made of stinky socks, C
#23New Post! Jun 30, 2006 @ 19:32:02
Just say it like this: Dude, I'm gay....And I killed someone.

They'll be too wrapped up in the fact you killed someone that he won't notice.
psycoskunk On December 24, 2020
Funky-Footed Skunk





A fort made of stinky socks, C
#24New Post! Jun 30, 2006 @ 19:32:31
@deadguy Said
step by step instructions :

1. go out with him for a drink...
2. multiply that drink with 5
3. each one of you goes home
4. wait until 2:30 am
5. call him
6. say this "dude, i just found out something : i am gay"
7. then say this "this means i will give you my entire porn collection"
8. then say this "oh, did i wake you up ?"
9. then say "ok...i'll let you sleep"
10. hang up
11. sleep
12. wait until the next day
13. give him porn
15. go on with your life
16. never adopt a teenager
17. name your first baby after me


I love it.
sweetrnsugar77 On December 22, 2008

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My Apartment, Oregon
#25New Post! Jun 30, 2006 @ 20:13:01
Be prepared that he may need space to figure things out in his head after you tell him. Try to keep it casual and if he already suspects then it wont be a shock but if he is clueless about you likin other dudes then he might freak out for a while.

Just be ready
naughtywitch23 On July 27, 2006




Bonlee, United States (general
#26New Post! Jul 06, 2006 @ 00:23:01
Well I know it's already been said more times then one, but I really think you should tell him. If he is a true friend he will stand behinde you all the way. I wouldn't want to try and be someone I'm not and I don't think anyone else should have to either. I accept all my friends for who they are no matter what. I hope everything goes well for you when you tell him and I wish you the best.

Peace and blessings to you and yours
slayer On February 18, 2008




Santos, Brazil
#27New Post! Jul 10, 2006 @ 09:16:37
I did it. I told him. God , it was so hard. The words just wouldn't come out. But I told him. He invited me to spend the weekend at his house and I told him. When I told him he said "You're kidding, right? I mean... Tell me it's just a joke" and then we talked about it all night long. At the end he said "I'm glad that you told me and I want you to know that you still my friend no matter what." And then it hit me , you were right , if he was a real friend he would be okay with that and now i know he is a real friend.

Thank you all. Thank you so much.
He invited me to spend next weekend at his house again , so I guess we are okay.
Darkshine On May 05, 2010




Sydney, Australia
#28New Post! Jul 11, 2006 @ 01:14:48
Wooo
venom On September 03, 2006

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, Colorado
#29New Post! Jul 15, 2006 @ 05:20:30
Well, this is going to be a long one but I have been there with a best friend who is a guy and is gay. We all had a hunch he was and it took him 5 years to get all of us together and let all 12 of his friends know that he was gay. The sad thing is out of all 12 best friends that have been so close to him, my brother and I were the only ones who stayed friends with him. I know this is something you did not want to hear but it is just a sad thing now a days that gays are not excepted like you want to be. I am straight and I obviously do not have a problem with gay people. You will just have to take the risk and if he does not except the fact that you are gay then he obviously he was never your friend to begin with. Best of luck!
venom On September 03, 2006

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, Colorado
#30New Post! Jul 15, 2006 @ 05:22:11
Okay, well I should read all of the post first...lol! Well I am happy that things worked out for you!
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