@Amorous_Guardian Said I was young when I married and although I did love my husband, my main objective for getting married was to get out of my parents house. We have been married for 13 years and most of them have been good. I guess I got bored, I know that's terrible... but I don't know how else to put it. The man I met gave me excitement and made me feel alive again, pretty again, needed and loved again... things that my husband just don't make me feel. I love my husband, he and I have a very long history, but the "new" wore off the love for him years ago. Now that "my friend" is out of the picture, I have spiraled into an almost uncontrollable depression that I just can't seem to snap out of. I miss him horribly, but more than that... I miss the excitement. I am back into my routine of boredom and I need to find a hobby that is not only good for me, but for my family.
I know all this is no excuse for what I did, just giving you some insight as to how it happened.
I make no apologies for what I say now.
My ex was the same as you,I loved her as much as any man loves his wife,I worked two jobs trying to keep our family going ( we have 3 kids,all grown up now) and kept long hours so we could pay of a morgage as well as have a holiday as a family.
Nine years ,3 kids and a morgage and I found out I was playing second fiddle to another bloke,so as you now know I'M the cast of product of a cheating wife just like you.
If you've come to this site looking for some clown to help you justify your ego about being a tramp,go somewhere else and blow bubbles up someone elses arse.
While your at it you might like to take into consideration your Husbands feelings,after all isn't he going to be the loser in the end,you'll get the kids,he'll get occasional time with them,You'' get child support,He'll go broke beacause of it,and the other bloke will piss you off because your causing problems with his marriage.
Take responsibility for your actions,and don't ask others to tell you your doing the right thing