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sarky On March 11, 2011




london, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Jan 15, 2009 @ 16:43:06
Have they changed from how they were before? Is second time around better than the first or are they still the same but older?
evababy1 On July 29, 2010
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lodi, New Jersey
#2New Post! Jan 15, 2009 @ 17:01:52
he was different. he came to me after 3 years of us breaking up. he came out of nowhere being he was being charged with something and needed me to go to court to help him. i agreed because i could see he was different and he needed help. we tried to be together, but this time it was me that didn't have the feelings. we decided it would be best to just say goodbye for good. i haven't seen him in a year, almost.
salinaa On May 11, 2010




Surrey, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Jan 15, 2009 @ 17:06:31
I have yes - it was a two and a half year gap and weird...

I never quite got over him in those years and when we sa each other there were no questions it just happened like it used to and everything was the same and still is when I see him these days, its like im drawn to him and him to me but nothing changes where he and commitment are concerned so after two failed attempts at something that will never happen, the first for a year and the secong for 6 months I gave up last year! Now he emails/texts me but I have moved on and am happy so i dont see him there is no point

Since then my motto is dont ever look back....
jennyp26 On February 16, 2011




TX,
#4New Post! Jan 15, 2009 @ 17:24:16
Been there. We were apart for almost 3 years. He started calling one day. We talked on the phone for about 4 months before we decided to see each other. (He had moved to another state) When we finally did meet up it was really awkward but then it all went away and all of those old feeling came back. We had both changed in the 3 years we were apart but it was a good change. We got married 9 months later and I couldnt be happier.
salinaa On May 11, 2010




Surrey, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Jan 15, 2009 @ 17:27:27
@jennyp26 Said

Been there. We were apart for almost 3 years. He started calling one day. We talked on the phone for about 4 months before we decided to see each other. (He had moved to another state) When we finally did meet up it was really awkward but then it all went away and all of those old feeling came back. We had both changed in the 3 years we were apart but it was a good change. We got married 9 months later and I couldnt be happier.



Wow that sounds amazing - if only all these situations could work out that way, Im happy for you
sarky On March 11, 2011




london, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Jan 15, 2009 @ 17:39:40
@salinaa Said

Wow that sounds amazing - if only all these situations could work out that way, Im happy for you
Me too!
chelle1991 On March 22, 2009




York, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Jan 16, 2009 @ 01:41:04
I got back with an ex after not seeing him for 2 years, he'd changed quite alot, but things didnt feel right beetweeen us so i broke it off.
Cheeks On March 30, 2009

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Perth, Australia
#8New Post! Jan 16, 2009 @ 01:52:42
no..... i have never stepped back....

it can work for some, but i like to keep my life moving forward, and end of the day the things that broke you up in the first place would still be lying deep down inside..
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