@DevilsPurity Said
To be honest, this makes you sound kind of fickle. You would go from loving someone to not loving them in an instant, just because they were interested in guys too? If you really loved them, I wouldn't think it would be that big of a deal
@evababy1 Said
You're right! It isn't a big deal, or shouldn't be, I suppose. But some people are willing to let something like this bother them. It's a shame.
I agree with both of you, but I should point out that I was 19 at the time, and I was in love with this guy but we were not a couple as such. It was something he hid from me for a long time. I do wish I could have handled it better or differently. I fell in love with someone I thought I knew, but didn't.
I've often wondered if it were my loss, and I did try to overlook it, but I am just not attracted to men who are attracted to other men. Who you date and love is always a personal choice & I just would not have been happy. Neither would he with me, I suspect.
Most of us can't really control who we love or don't love, or why - we are just attracted to some people but not to others. For many the reasons are far less important than who someone has slept with - it can be their nose, their eyes, their car....what some people call important others see as shallow.