@Eowyn Said
who in their right mind wants a baby so young anyways? who wants a baby when they have JUST married?
I was married in my early teens and to make a long story short, my third and youngest child was in school by my 25th birthday .
So I guess I would have to say , ' me' , to your 'who in their right mind' question,,,,
No, it was not always wonderful and never really easy .
bat then those things in life that make life livable and worth getting up in the morning usually aren't. IMO
(BTW, i was married before I got pregnant. I finished school ,we almost got on welfare once when we lost our income because the company hubby had been working for went belly up, )
I have a friend who had a baby young well she was 21 but she complained constantly and did not want to deal with the baby.then she meets some guy and gets prego again. and while she is getting huge and being super lazy. she complained about that as well. she now carries that baby around like its a bag or a stuffed animal.
I will never understand why some one would want a baby so young. I will never understand why if they want to have sex why not be smart and get on the pill?
I am married and 24 and still feel unready to have a kid.
it scares me just to think of having a baby and not being able to do the things i do now, such as sleep, clean and cook when I want to.
of course its cute and sweet to have a baby once you are married. but its really a good idea to be married 1st and I agree with what you said about it not making the relationship better..I heard once some where you don't have a baby to fix your problems. you fix your problems THEN have a baby.
I agree with what you are saying, Harsh but true :D I feel sorry for those who are not taught correctly, but I guess this is what happens when sex education is taught in schools. parents should really teach their kids about this.
My husband and I have already decided that if our daughter gets pregnant while she is young, we will NOT help her out but kick her out. she was woman enough to lay there and open her legs she will be woman enough to take care of it.
She will receive no help from us at all, but hopfully she will know better and not be so stupid
I knew a girl who wanted to have kids at 14 and she got what she wanted. some one said that the father of the babies would leave her. the father than claimed that he would not and he would be there for the babies, but what do you think happened when the babies were actually born? yes he up and left...
Girls are so stupid because they think that it will be easy and fun.but then after awhile they cry and complain and say they do not want the baby.
Some parents do help though. some parents are proud that their daughter went out and got pregnant. they are like wow I Am going to be a grandmother. that is soo great. some parents will do EVERYTHING for that girl and never complain. or some will just cover it up and say "oh this baby is mine" there are just stupid people in this world, and I SMH....
On the other hand I Hope all goes well with you!!! -hugs-