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xyouthinkyouknowx On July 14, 2006




Weymouth, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Jan 21, 2006 @ 21:20:51
I have this friend at school who is nearly 2 years younger than me Tom. He's a really nice guy most of the time and last year we had a bit of a flirt. I thought nothing of it because he was one of my best friends and meant alot to me. However, I ended going up with his mate Jordan recently. His girlfriend (he was going out with someone after we finished flirting) Hannah asked the same guy out in the past before she asked my friend Tom out that i'm on about. He still feels a bit of resentment towards me and this girl Hannah, as she choose to ask Jordan before him. Also that I was flirty and said one time that he was a little young for me, but Jordan is actually younger than him. He is a bit sensetive at the moment and presently is blocking me from MSN, posts online, phonecalls, everything. I am not really certain why it's a big deal to him. Jordan told me this was because he thought I 'loved' myself and that he was annoyed I had just flirted and meant nothing serious (I had used him basically in his opinion) and Hannah put his as second best. Jake, another friend of ours, says he's jealous and is annoyed that I wanted to go out with Jordan instead of him. This is a complex issue but any opinions on this issue would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you!!!
stumblinthrulife On April 16, 2008

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Lake Saint Louis, Missouri
#2New Post! Jan 21, 2006 @ 21:22:57
It's only as big a deal as you make it. If he wants to be childish about it let him. He's 1 person in 6,000,000,000. Life's too short to deal with that crap, ignore it and move on.
mollymalone On March 01, 2008

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Muff, Ireland
#3New Post! Jan 21, 2006 @ 21:27:38
Forget him and just move on. Your very young, plenty more fish in the sea. Enjoy yourself.
jwasafrog On September 18, 2010




, California
#4New Post! Jan 21, 2006 @ 21:33:41
wait, I think you guys are missing something. She said how much she likes this
person as a friend, and that he meant a lot to her, so it might not be that
easy.
dark_lotus On June 28, 2010




Crewe, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Jan 21, 2006 @ 21:42:40
try speaking to him in school or where ever and try to tell him you like him as a friend but don't want to go any further. in your own words of course
Elite_Dragon On December 24, 2016
The Dragon is in....





Chesterfield, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Jan 21, 2006 @ 21:59:15
@dark_lotus Said
try speaking to him in school or where ever and try to tell him you like him as a friend but don't want to go any further. in your own words of course


this is gd advice but in these words could do more damage than good this is definatly the way to go but make sure u emphasize the fact that u don't want to do anything to spoil the relationship u have with him as a friend as if the 2 of you were to go out and then split up later on the friendship could b damaged beyond repair this is what u must say to him then hopefully he will understand
hope i helped
kebab_boy On April 05, 2011




Bristol, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Jan 21, 2006 @ 22:09:42
Well, this is a difficult one, because I am the person that the first post is refering to. Me and XyouthinkyouknowX are at the same school and I have blocked her on MSN.

I just thought the best way of dealing with someone who you are angry with is ignoring them, so not talking to them and not paying them any attention rather than showing that anger to the person which I don't want to do. I don't want to cause any trouble or anything like that.
xyouthinkyouknowx On July 14, 2006




Weymouth, United Kingdom
#8New Post! Jan 22, 2006 @ 17:28:42
Hehe yes I thought you may enjoy people calling you childish Tom
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