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x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:04:51
Wrong or not?

My friend doesn't seem to think he's doing any wrong, but I think he's wrong to be flirting with other girls behind his girlfriend's back.

misunderstood On June 24, 2014
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#2New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:07:59
Depends what the flirting consists of I guess

I am extremely loyal when I'm in a relationship... but I'll still chat and have fun with other guys... people might consider that flirting I guess
sister_of_mercy On March 11, 2015




London, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:08:26
I think it's wrong. Well, I guess it's ok as long as it's not too blatant but if you are in a relationship with someone then you shouldn't feel the need to flirt with anyone else, but maybe that's just me being naive.
x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:08:48
@misunderstood Said

Depends what the flirting consists of I guess

I am extremely loyal when I'm in a relationship... but I'll still chat and have fun with other guys... people might consider that flirting I guess



I don't really know what it consists of... I just don't think it's right for him to do that
40isnotsobad On December 07, 2010




Houston, Texas
#5New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:08:53
Yeah...it's probably wrong depending on the circumstance...I know I flirt with a guy I have a total crush on and it's wrong...but oh baby...I just can't help it!
CheshireSmile On March 11, 2009




Ballajura, Australia
#6New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:09:34
I think we all indulge in a little mindless flirting once and a while, whether we're in a relationship or not. It is perfectly natural to find other people attractive while in a relationship, so one would assume that it is natural to subconsciously flirt while in a relationship. So long as he's not taking it any further than that, and she is aware of it and knows that that's all it is, then all should be fine.
x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:10:13
Well apparently he does it so that he can get a boner
angelcake On January 18, 2016
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Eastleigh, United Kingdom
#8New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:10:38
I flirt with girls

No I think it depends on how flirty and whether it's open or hidden.
plebian_angel On April 25, 2012
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#9New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:11:01
I don't think innocent flirting is bad at all. Keeps the ego up. As long as it doesn't turn into serious 'i want to do you' banter.
roxygemini On April 16, 2009

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, Canada
#10New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:12:06
I am a flirty girl sometimes.
If I am in a relationship though, it comes first.
I would never be disrespectful to my significant other, and do something to hurt his feelings.
But there is a big difference in flirting harmlessly, and actually wanting another boy's pants.
I think that flirting is natural between two people, without putting too much thought into it.
Stigma On February 13, 2010
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#11New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:13:02
If it's behind her back because she doesn't want him to, then I thinks it's wrong, same goes the other way around.

Would I personally have a problem with it?

Well to me there is a difference, if it's just talking briefly, no, not at all, if it's touchy feely, I have a problem with that.

Also, it depends on the feelings behind it, is it light goofy fun, or is it lustful?
DiscordTiger On December 04, 2021
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Emerald City, United States (g
#12New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:13:13
Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with casual flirting, that doesn't go anywhere.

Of course, both my husband and I are huge flirts and neither one of us is obsessively jealous either. However, its never really done behind each others backs. We are both aware of it and trust each other. Also we talk a lot, and pretty much tell each other these type of things
chef_mia On December 11, 2012




derry, Ireland
#13New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:15:22
flirting s ony words and abit of fun it means nothing i flirt with every1 and most of them time i dont even realize that im doing it
40isnotsobad On December 07, 2010




Houston, Texas
#14New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:15:51
@plebian_angel Said

I don't think innocent flirting is bad at all. Keeps the ego up. As long as it doesn't turn into serious 'i want to do you' banter.




Oops!

Just kidding...sorta

I do want him though.
MoshaFreak On May 02, 2016

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, United Kingdom
#15New Post! Feb 03, 2009 @ 22:30:24
wrong wrong wrong wrong!!!!!!!!!!!

if your in a relationship your ment to be in love with the bugger. not the one your flirting with. the other bugger. you know the one you are in the relationship with
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